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College Education Might Be A fucking Waste Of Your Time For This Four Reasons.

 

the majority of college students do not figure out their life's purpose so they follow the fate of the rest world.

Hi there, thank’s for reading this post.

College education is something I really like to talk about as it relates so much to me.

Most people who have not yet discovered what they want to do with their lives often tend to give in to the norm, you know, “go to school, get a degree and get a decent job.”

I was one of those people myself.

And one of the things that terrified me, in the beginning at first, was the fact that most people I knew who dropped out of college later realized they had made the worst decisions of their life by dropping out.

Is this how it’s going to end up for me? I usually asked myself.

If you are deciding to go to college or whether or not to drop out of college, you are not sure what to do with your life.

What if things don’t work out?

Here is what I’ve got to tell you.

First of all. all those I knew who dropped out of school and was later kicking themselves for dropping out had no reason why they were dropping out in the first place, and no reason for choosing the particular field they chose. They simply got tired of the stress and hardship of studying for countless boring hours.

It’s very simple, if you don’t find a good reason for doing something, you may not have the strength and the inner motivation that you need to draw upon when the times get tough, and that is exactly what happens when people quit school without having a back up definite plan to execute immediately.

No wonder, most of the advice I got when I dropped out of college in the 2nd semester of my final year, was that I should defer the program so that I could always come back to complete it.

That wasn’t a bad advice you may think. But here’s the wrong thing about it. All those people around you what cannot do something important with their lives tend to make you think you can’t do something important for yourself too. They always believe somethings are just impossible.

That is the kind of advice that comes from people you would normally call “losers,” and as you may know, they will always want to drag you along with them.

If you are deciding to get into college not to fulfill your heartfelt purpose(something you have a deep passion for) but because you are not sure of who you are and what you are meant to do with your life, then I hope the next few minutes of reading this post will give you some food for thought and hopefully help you find balance with your life.

Before we dive in, over 80 percent of people you see on campus don’t know why they are there. Most of them tend to think and believe that the only way to succeed in life is to go get a good degree, get a good job, and save for retirement. This is the way most people are usually set up for life.

What you need to ask yourself is “Do I need to work for 40 years of constant 9—5 five times a week to save up for retirement?” Unfortunately, this is what the majority of people do. And the reason for this is that most people have had their minds conditioned to believe that the way to succeed is by going to school, obtaining good grades and then file an application to a company who will employ you IF they find you fit.

 

In My Opinion, There Are 3 Basic Misconceptions About Going To School That Most Don’t Seem To Understand.

1. You Should Go To School To Be Successful In Life.

Here’s the thing, If I knew early enough that this was, in fact, a lie, maybe I would have dropped out in my 7th grade.

And here is the reason I say that.

This post you are reading now was typed on a Windows 8.1 computer which wouldn’t have been made possible by Paul Allen and Bill Gates who are both college drop out.

Now after typing this post, I am going to save it in my one drive cloud account which would not have been made possible without same Microsoft.

If at the end of this post, you decide to share it to inspire your friends on Facebook or Twitter, I want you to know that you are able to do that because folks like Mark Zuckerberg and Jack Dorsey dropped out of college and decided to focus on their dream of connecting the world together.

What am I trying to say?

First, It depends on how you define success.

If going to school was a sure guarantee for success, then I wonder why there are billionaires and millions of self-made millionaires in America alone who dropped out of school.

Studies show that America’s least educated folks are responsible for more of the business created in the U.S. Also As of the end of 2016 for example, CNBC reported that there were 10.8 million millionaires in America, most of which are college dropouts.

Of all this success report, here’s one thing I have to say regarding that. Success in life comes from one thing. Doing what you love to do.

2. You Must Get Good Grades To Get A Decent Job.

This is one of the myths that most people actually believe to be true.

Take my word for it, 90 percent of people who flies first class have less than or no college certificate at all. You don’t need to go to school before you find yourself something that really pays well, let alone having good grades.

The primary purpose of going to school in the first place is to provide your immediate needs and be able to provide a better life for yourself and the people around you that depend on you by getting a decent job. Providing for yourself and your loved ones is something you are naturally designed to do and you don’t need to depend on a college grade to fulfill this purpose.

In my opinion, depending on a college grade to get a job and be able to provide food for your family is a sign of giving away your powers as a human being. Unfortunately, that’s what’s going on out there. You are born with an infinite potential to succeed in life. Nature has already equipped you with all you want for life before you got here. When you don’t realize that, then you think you need to have to go to school and get the best grades to become successful.

As it turns out according to this survey, the majority of successful businesses are owned by independent business owners with less than high school diploma. People who didn’t wait to get good grades from school before they can put themselves to use.

What these guys have that made them so successful is self-reliance, willingness to take risks and a vision.

“Good grades may feed you from month to month, but brain power will give you the key to life.” —Alex.

3. Leaving School Is The End Of Learning.

Most people believe—and I used to too— that once they left school, that would be the end of reading and learning new stuff.

Not True!

Bob Proctor, world renowned speaker made a clear statement that, “In the time of change, the learners will inherit the earth and the learned will find themselves beautifully equipped with the knowledge to deal with a world that no longer exists.”

Life is constantly changing, hence the need to put your self in a position of constantly growing and learning new things.

As a matter of fact, leaving school should be the beginning of learning, because this is when real life kicks in. The theories learned in school have no place for application in the real world. So, the earlier you begin learning practical stuff to truly succeed in the real world the better for you.

Over 85% of the things you learned in school will do no good to sustain you in a world that is constantly changing and evolving, and if you as an individual is not learning constantly and growing, then let’s face it, you’re not really living life. If you are not growing, mentally, physically and spiritually, then you are dying. That is just the ugly truth.

You need to know that life is in a constant process of growth and change and that the earlier you buy into that and start looking for ways and means to constantly better yourself, the better it will be for you and your future.

Reid Buckley said. “You must try to constantly improve your skills and abilities, if you don’t, somewhere someone is, and when you meet him you will lose.”

There are 5 Questions I Would Like You To Ask And Answer For Yourself If You Are Deciding To Go College Or Thinking About Dropping Out.

1. Do You Know What You Really Want In Life?

if you have no purpose with which you wake up and get to, you have no life.

Virtually 90% of the people you meet on campus are there because they have been told and guided by the people they look up to—parents, relatives, etc— that going to school is the only route to a successful and happy life.

They act and copy what everyone else is doing, not knowing why.

Unfortunately, these people buy the advice, get to the end of the road and then discover that there is nothing more to it.

Utterly disappointed, they are completely shocked, things have not turned out the way expected it would, simply because they have learned to follow the guidance of others not learning to follow their own inner guidance.

So, I am asking you.

Do you know what you want with your life? What kind of lifestyle do you want to have a few years from now? You cannot take advice from someone who is not an example of who you want to be.

Be laser clear on what you want with your life. No one else is going to decide for you. You alone can decide the direction you are headed in life. Failure to do this, chances are you will be blindly led along with the millions of people who are wrongly led down the wrong paths in life.

Action Tip.

Get out a paper and pen, write down what your life would look like assuming everything was perfect a few years from now.

2. Is Going To School In Alignment With Your Vision?

you have to align your actions to your desires

You have visualized your ideal future, the next question is how are you going to achieve this dream?

How certain are you that going to school for 4 years is going to get you to your goal?

If you look at your goal, what is the relationship between going to school and the future you are visualizing?

If there is no co-relationship between spending 4 years in school studying a particular field and achieving your goals and really living the lifestyle you want, then you’ll be going to waste a very important time of your life.

For example, let say you imagine taking vacations 3-6 times a year with your spouse and living in beautiful waterfront homes, and the way you are going to achieve this dream is by helping to save people’s lives. This is what you’re passionate about.

Going to school to study medicine will probably the best way to achieve this goal because you will be passionate about it, in which case, you could be among the best of students studying that field of discipline because there is a deep emotional connection going on.

Often time, this is not the case.

Most of the guys and girls on campus have no ideal future that they are striving to pull off. Worst of all, many give up on pursuing their dreams because they have grown to believe it’s impossible to achieve what their heart desires.

Be sure you know what feels right for you.

Action Tip.

Look at your goal, make sure it is what you truly want—regardless of whether you think its possible or not— and decide whether for sure, going to school will grant you this wish. Be very honest with yourself.

If after looking at your goal and deciding that going to school does not offer the best way for you to accomplish that goal, then you know that’s a sign trying to lead to through the right path. You must therefore decide to listen and let your heart lead you.

 

3. Is Going To School Going To Give You The Life You Want In The Shortest Period Of Time Possible?

young girl on a yacht admiring the beauty of life.

Another thing you have to consider when you look at your goal is, will school be the shortest route to your dream? Will your years in college bring you success within the shortest frame of time possible?

What will happen to your goals and dreams if you actually spent the next 4 years of your life learning and improving daily with your heart and mind in a craft you’ve always wanted to do or learn and you are passionate for? What will the effect be on you?

You’ve got to be very clear on this.

This is quite different from going to school and learning something you have no emotional connection with.

Sadly, 95% of people you see around campus don’t know what they are actually signing up for.

If you think that getting a good job after school is going to make you a millionaire, then you are looking to spend 25 years of your wonderful life, waking up before 6 am daily, eating breakfast on the way to work, working hard through the day, and not having enough time and freedom to give your body the perfect rest that it needs to function more brilliantly.

And if you are not lucky, you may not even get a satisfying job on time or at worse you could get fired from the one you have.

Ask yourself, is this what you are put on this planet for? Is that the kind of life you are created to live? Don’t forget that life was given to you to enjoy and not to strive.

Be honest with yourself.

Many people suffer in life because they have never been honest with themselves, they know what they don’t feel good about but still go ahead and do it, neglecting their gut feeling which yearns to lead and guide them on the right path.

4. Are You Sure You Want To End Up Working 9-5?

Man tired of working and having to cope with annoying situations at work

No matter what your grade points are if you are going to get a job, it means you are going to end up working 9-5 to help build someone else’s company by contributing your values.

Jim Rohn said, “if you don’t make plans for your self, you will probably always fit into someone else’s plan.” 

Make a conscious decision whether this is what you want or not.

Why not be your own boss instead of being on someone else’s employee payroll?

Most people enjoy the work they do and they are happy doing it, however, you must follow your heart. You cannot make a decision based on other people’s perception.

As a young guy, I never liked the idea of working all year, 40 hours per week for someone who ends up paying me only 12 times a year and inhibiting my abilities to be creative and productive for myself. I have always thought about living life on my own terms, doing what I love to do with my life.

Extra Tip.

Your decision regarding what you want to do with your life is something you must approach with courage. 

Without courage, you do not have the guts to face reality.

You may not like the idea of going to school because you feel there is something better you can do but you are scared to make that decision.

Your heart is the best guidance system you can ever rely on.

 

5. Do You Have A Problem With Freedom?

Going to college and working 9 to 5 is not a guarantee for freedom. You can chose to be free everyday.

“I’d prefer dangerous freedom over peaceful slavery.”  —Thomas Jefferson

Who wouldn’t love to live a life of freedom?

Would you prefer sitting in the courtroom on a Monday morning trying to defend a psychopath who shot his wife, when you can be chilling in a resort in Costa-Rica sipping a glass of champagne?

Who would not want to be at the gym in the morning and receive alerts of cash flowing in different sources of income?

Who would not want to live a life free from worry and depression?

Our purpose on this planet is to experience the best that the world has to offer, and not to live like servants all because we need to earn money to look after ourselves.

Most people never get to experience this type of life because of indecision and fear.

They have actually bought the ideas sold to them by people in their lives, so they spend the rest of their lives working for money instead of having money do the work for them.

Final words.

I am not suggesting that going to school is a bad idea because I am glad I went through the system, but you have to be sincere with your self to really decide what you want with your life.

What kind of life would you love to have, assuming everything was absolutely perfect?

Be clear on what you want and start drafting out plans to make it come to life.

If you are going to spend 4 or more years in school, make sure it is something you are passionate about, and you have a vision for it.

If not, if you don’t feel right about going to school, if there is something you feel better at, that is a sign that you will probably do well and have more success with that. Don’t try to deny yourself the expression of your own unique gift because we all have it, if you do, you are going to spend the rest of your life kicking yourself and wishing you had followed your heart earlier. This is the cause of most people’s regret in life. They had the time and opportunity but didn’t take it, now it’s over and there’s nothing left to do.

If you go through the above questions and answer them honestly, you may realize that spending 4 years is a deliberate waste of time because, in 4 years, you can learn any skill of your choice that will bring you closer to achieving your life goal.

I hope this post has inspired you to look more closely at the direction your life is headed. If it did, like it to let me know that it served you.

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Thanks again for reading this article. I had a fun creating it for you. Until next time, BYE!

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Powerful ways to move from a lower position to a higher position in life

How to Get Promoted From A lower Position To A Higher Position With Four Steps.

Powerful ways to move from a lower position to a higher position  in life

Four powerful steps on how to get you promoted from where you are right now to where you ultimately want to be.

Hi there, thank you for reading this guide.

As it’s been proven by science, there is a precise scientific way to get the things we want for ourselves in our lives.

In this post, I am going to share with you four key steps you can use to automatically move from where you are now to where you wish to be.

Whether you are a banker, or a corporate consultant working for a firm, regardless of whatever you do, this principles will work for you.

If you are tired of the position you are now and you want to move forward on the ladder, maybe you think you deserve more, then this guide is definitely for you.

Although the things I’m going to be sharing with you are quite unorthodox, they have been proven to work with precision over the years.

Not only has science proven these techniques to work like charm, the sages, saints, teachers of the ages have talked about this countless numbers of times:

We become what we think about most of the time.

Most people have got a glimpse on the idea that thoughts are powerful things, however, most of us still find it difficult to appropriate this powerful force intelligently in a way that we use it to create and manifest our desires in life.

So in this post, I’m going to walk you through four quick and easy steps you can use to create and manifest your desires.

Like I said earlier, regardless of what you do. If you are in the employment chain, then you definitely want to climb up the ladder and just keep going to as far as you can get because truly, nobody likes to get stuck.

But how is this possible? You may ask.

Well, it is very possible, in fact, as you are going to see for yourself in just a moment here that it actually is very possible.

The reason people don’t move forward is this; while they are supposed to be moving forward in their mind’s eyes first, they keep moving backward in their minds, either thinking of all the things that have not worked out well in the past, or even scared of the future.

And the thing is this, where your mind goes, energy flows.

So, if you are always thinking about your past, maybe thinking about things that have not worked out, then you are creating an instance of all the things that have not worked to repeat themselves in your future.

You become what you think about most times.

So, when they meet the same unfortunate events again in the future, they blame it on fate or life or chance, not knowing that they are the ones responsible for the mess they are in.

If you really want to move forward, regardless of where you are in life right now, then I highly recommend that you practice these four principles I am going to lay out.

How to Move Forward In Life With Four Steps.

Step 1. You Need To Be The Person That Deserves A Promotion In Life.

step 1 in moving up the ladder is to have the required skills and talents

So, the question is this; do you actually deserve the promotion you seek?

According to one of my mentors Jim Rohn, he said, “life does not give us what we think we need, but life was designed to give us what we deserve.”

You can’t go to the soil and tell the soil you need more crop without bringing your seed.

If you need more crop, you need to take your seeds with you, only then will you qualify and deserve a harvest.

So, if you want to be promoted in whatever it is you are doing, you must take your seeds (skills) with you.

This is basically the first and most important part of the process: Be the person that deserves a promotion.

And so, with the right skills and right talents as needed in your marketplace, you become the right person for the job when the time comes.

Do not think you need to step forward in life when you do not have what it takes. If you need to step forward, then position yourself to be promoted.

Give yourself the right tools for success: learn the required skills you need to progress and climb to the top of the chain.

Key Phrase: Acquire the right skills and capabilities that are required for the position you wish.

Step 2. Be Faithful With Where You Are Now

Step 2 to move from a lower to higher position is to be happy where you are now

This step is equally as important as the first.

Most people think they want to move forward in life but are very unfaithful with the position they are currently at.

This is a major barrier I see with people most times.

The cashier at the bank wants to be promoted to the post of assistant manager but she is not happy with either her job or life in general.

So she transfers that frustration to the customers; doesn’t sound nice to her customers, doesn’t treat other colleagues with love and respect.

Not only does she have a bad attitude with everyone she comes in contact with during her working hours, but also, her work ethic is poor.

Such a person can go on all her life wishing for a better life and never get it. Why?

Simple, she has not put herself in that frequency to deserve a better life. She may be making a lot of money, but will not find the things that make like truly enjoyable such as happiness, laughter, friendship and so on…

So it is very important to be faithful with wherever you are currently.

If you are not faithful with where you are currently, how will you be faithful when you are where you want to be?

Like I said earlier, we don’t get what we want in life, we get what we deserve.

Treat everyone with kindness and respect, and suddenly, you will become the person that deserves the things you desire.

Key Phrase: Learn to accept where you are now with faithfulness and an open mind. Do what you do now—no matter how small— with happiness and excellence in mind.

Only then will you qualify to deserve the things you want in life.

Step 3. Continually Visualize Yourself Being Where You Wish To Be.

step 3 on how to move from a lower to a higher position is to visualize your end goals regularly

Here comes the interesting part of the process.

Visualization is simply the process of seeing mental images as they would appear in real time.

However, this powerful creation technique has been misused by a lot of people instead of using it to create what they want in life.

They continue to visualize mental images of things they do not want. For example, losing their jobs, losing a loved one, having financial crises, having a poor health state, basically, everything they do not want.

Not only do they visualize these things in their minds, but also, they allow the emotions of these sad realities to rob them of their happiness and joy.

Words cannot explain how powerful the human mind is, yet, most people soaked with ignorance, never for once, catch a glimpse on this.

Instead, they take this power and use it to create everything they truly do not want.

To begin to use this powerful technique effectively in a way that provides the result you want, here is what you must do:

Every night, before going to bed or upon waking in the morning, close your eyes and imagine what it would look like for you to have the things that you want.

For example, if you want to be promoted to the position of a branch manager in your organization, mentally see yourself in that position.

Imagine what your office would look like if you were actually the branch manager. Not only that, take it a step further and imagine the color of your official car. Imagine the colors of the various items in your office like the seats, tables, and so on…

See in your mind’s eyes, younger staffs reporting to you in your office. Imagine yourself in your mind presiding over meetings, giving monthly reports to a group board of directors.

If you can mentally imagine everything it would mean for you to be where you want to be, in this example, a branch manager, it will only activate those senses and make the process a lot quicker.

Give your mind all the possible images to work with.

Our minds are so powerful yet it does not differentiate between what is real and what is imagined. It simply takes whatever image is repeated over and over again and that is the raw material it uses to create our individual realities.

So, if you can keep feeding your mind with these images of things you want to have manifest in your life along with the positive emotions that come with it, and actually block your mind from thinking and visualizing things you don’t want, then it is only a matter of time, before the things you visualize begins to materialize.

A CEO in an interview once said, “I was a cleaner in my company, and I was appointed to clean the CEO’s office, and the 7th floor was the CEO’s office, so every time, I would burst in like I’m the CEO, I’m dreaming, like I’m the CEO now. Who would ever think that I will be a CEO, but here I am, I am the CEO of my own company.”

The power of visualization cannot be overstated. Every day, thousands of people are reporting the magical power of visualization and how it has worked wonders for them.

Most people are using it to attract their perfect soulmates, others are using it to manifest their dream jobs. More and more people are using it to close business deals and heal themselves of diseases and ailments.

Begin to train your mind to work wonders for you because the mind has no limits of its own, except for the ones you impose on it with your thoughts.

Key phrase. Think of how it would feel for you to have the things you want.

Employ your imagination, always see your self in the position you seek and feel what it would be like for you to have that thing come to life.

Step 4. Believe In The Process.

step 4 on how to move from a lower to higher position in what ever you do in life.

This is the final step of the process.

So, while you are feeding your mind with the images of things you want, your mind may be tricking you—as it sometimes does— that it is impossible to get the things you want.

However, do not identify with these emotions of doubt.

Your mind is tricking you because you have not thought it how powerful it is. However, as you continue to repeat the visualizations and empowering beliefs in your mind, it slowly begins to learn about itself and its powers.

And with constant repetition, it evolves and becomes aware of its own creative powers.

There is nothing you cannot do.

Believe in the process. Do not make the mistake of concerning yourself with how it is going to be possible.

There is a power, call it a force, that is responsible for bringing us the experiences we have in life.

And this power does not just create our experiences without receiving commands from us. These commands are the thoughts we think, the images we see in our minds and the emotions we feel.

So, if you have all these under control, then you need not worry about how the things you want will come to pass.

The subconscious mind is responsible for attracting the people, situations, circumstances, and events that match the things that go on in our inner worlds. That is our mental images, thoughts, and feelings.

The only thing you need to do is to learn to cope with the passing away of time because the things we create in our minds always come to life.

Since the mind is like a vast fertile soil, every seed (thought, imagination, feelings) we sow will always find ways and means to grow and seek expression.

Key phrase. Never worry or bother yourself with how the things you want will manifest. Leave that to a power infinitely greater than yourself.

Final Thought.

People do not make a hundred thousand dollars in a year because they want to make a hundred thousand dollars in a year. They make a hundred thousand a year because they have not learned how to make a hundred thousand in a month.

No matter how far you want to go in life, here is the truth.

You have the power to do far more than you can begin to imagine. All you need to do is expand your awareness about what is possible for you.

Just like Henry Ford said, whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you are absolutely right.

It is my only intention to inspire you with this guide, and if it did inspire you, please let me know. Like or share with anyone who may also find it helpful.

Your feedback is important to me because it helps me provide you with more tailored contents.

Let me know what you think about this guide, or if you have other questions or challenges, share them here and I hope that together, we can find a solution to your life questions and challenges.

That’s all for now and thank you for your time.

develop a prosperity consciousness

4 Easy Tips On How to Develop a Prosperity Consciousness.

Seeing it in your minds eyes is one step to developing a prosperity consciousness

4 easy tips on how to develop a prosperity consciousness that anyone can implement regardless of where you are currently in your life.

Hey there, thanks for checking in to read this post, and I appreciate your time.

In a world teeming with an abundance of everything we can ever want or desire to have, it is still very sad and unfortunate that a lot of persons actually settle for the meager things of life.

Why don’t we share in the everlasting abundance of the universe? Why do we go through life lacking the things that are designed to make our lives sweet and more enjoyable?

The fishes in the sea enjoy an overabundance of supply of their daily needs. The birds of the air enjoy the limitless freedom to fly wherever they want?

Why do the animals of the field never lack food to eat or water to drink?

Again, I ask the question, why do we choose to go through life not sharing in the beauty and abundance that we ought to enjoy and is entirely our right to enjoy? For “Ye are made in the image and likeness of God”

Everything is in overabundance.

Hopefully, with this post, we shall be able to learn and understand two major key concepts, mainly:

  • Why the poor will get poorer and the rich richer.
  • How to make our minds more favorable to attract prosperity to us.

So in the meantime, grab your cup of water because we are going to have fun with this.

Ready?

I think the major reason why this topic is really important for anyone who desires to create more prosperity in their life is that without a prosperity consciousness, no matter how strong your desire for riches and wealth may be, ain’t never going to happen.

Why?

Well, every truly successful person understands that success and riches begin from the inside out.

In other words, they understand that true riches, as well as success, is independent of external circumstances, therefore, it depends entirely on the inner world to create it. You carry your success or failure everywhere you go said Emerson, writer of the book Intune with the infinite.

Without this initial inner world creation, there can be no outward manifestation of riches and prosperity, because, every effect we see in the physical world has its cause in the inner world of thoughts.

To cut the long story short, if you want to enjoy more prosperity in your life, if you want to live a prosperous life, you must first begin to live it in your mind before it can ever find ways and means to manifest itself in your material world.

Everything moves from the spiritual (quantum) world of thoughts to the physical world of effect. This is the great secret of life.

Whether or not you are aware, everything you are experiencing in your life right now is the manifestation of your own vibrations of thought.

One last word before we look at the tips I want to share; find out how you want your life to be and begin to live that way in your mind, block out moment to moment realities that is not an expression of your earnest desires.

You want to start programming the things you want in your mind as often as possible.

So, there are basically 4 tips I want you to be aware of if you want to experience more prosperity regardless of whatever it is you do, and while I am not guaranteeing they will be a quick fix, I think if you take this advice and implement it in your life, the time will come when you will realize a shift in apparently every area of your life is taking place as a result of these tips.

4 Tips To Develop A Prosperity Consciousness.

Step One: Plant Prosperity Seeds Thoughts And Water Constantly With Repetition

plants good seeds if you want a good harvest. Likewise, think good thoughts if you want a good life. Your thoughts are seeds.

We attract what we think about most of the time, and the more we think a particular thought, the more we give it life and power to either harm us or help us later in life.

So, I like to think of thoughts as seeds. You know that if a seed is sown in the ground, regardless of what type of seed is sown, it’s only a matter of time before the seed sprouts and begins in search for sunlight, right?

From there, it continues to grow as long as it remains attached and connected with its source of life.

Now, I want you to understand something, every time we think a thought, it is as if we have planted a seed which in our case is a thought seed.

This thought seed begins to grow in our minds attracting other similar thoughts to it. And the more we think that thought, whether or not it is either positive or negative, the more we give it power and life. The more it begins to form stronger and broader connections in our minds.

I like what Ralph Waldo Emerson said in his book In Tune With The Infinite (highly insightful): Send out your thought, thought is a force, it has an occult power of unknown proportions when rightly used and wisely directed.

Thoughts make us what we are said the Buddha.

Now, if you are not experiencing the kind of prosperity you want, it is because your thoughts are still riddled with scarcity consciousness.

That is, instead of thinking with a feeling of prosperity, you think with a feeling of scarcity and lack.

When we think about scarcity, we attract scarcity into our lives. Like attracts like.

To correct this, we want to override thoughts of scarcity or lack with thoughts of prosperity and abundance.

For someone who is a beginner in this science, this step one is perfect for them because first, it gives them the belief that they can do it, and second, it makes it easy for them to practice.

What you want to do if you are not experiencing the prosperity you want is to begin to think of yourself as prosperous.

That is, in your mind, you want to see yourself living and experiencing this prosperity you have chosen. See yourself in the ideal environment, with the ideal social influence, in the ideal home driving the ideal car.

Feel the taste of prosperity in your mind first, it is what sets into operation, the forces that will bring you the prosperity you desire.

Naturally, your mind, since it’s been wired with thoughts of lack and scarcity—telling you it’s not possible— will try to kick against this belief at first since it does not recognize it as a part of your belief, however, understand that the mind is a good learner.

Keep repeating this belief to your mind in the form of your mental images. Remember that in the degree that we think a particular thought, to that degree, we give it life and power.  We want to get to the point where we never doubt the fact that we are prosperous even though practically it might be a different story.

A simple affirmation such as “Prosperity surrounds me all the time” repeated over and over again will literally condition your mind to believe and attract prosperity to you.

Your mind can only begin to attract the prosperity you want if you believe firmly in the fact that you are indeed prosperous. Keep in mind that this belief has nothing to do with your external circumstances.

Action Tip.

  • Block out at least 10 minutes of your time every day, go somewhere quiet or silently in your mind and repeat the following affirmations to yourself: I am prosperous, Prosperity surrounds me, there is an abundance for me and everyone around me etc.

Our thoughts and words are very powerful as confirmed by countless research. What we think affects us more than any other influence we receive externally. So plant your thought in your mind and water it repeatedly with the same thoughts.

Step Two: Act In Accordance With Your Thoughts.

Align your and your actions if you want to develop a prosperity consciousness

In creating what you want, you want to be able to keep your thoughts, words, and actions in alignment at all times.

What does this mean in connection to having a prosperity consciousness?

Well, if you think about it, if you have a strong belief in something, your actions must be able to show for it right?

Take for example—I’m not a big believer in hard work— if you are the type that works really hard, it is because you believe in working hard, and so your actions speak for itself.

Likewise, in developing a prosperity consciousness, you want to be able to act in ways that suggest abundance, in a way that suggests prosperity. Let your actions demonstrate who you think you are.

If you want more, then give off yourself more. Your giving more comes from the belief that there is already more.

Do you really understand what a prosperity consciousness is? Well, it’s simply a state of mind that sees and recognizes prosperity everywhere. Having such a belief, a consciousness, that there is more for already provided for you prompts you to act in ways that reflect this inner awareness.

It becomes really easy and automatic for you to give off yourself, your energy, as well as your money because you feel there is enough for you and all.

Most people will never think they have enough. They literally take their day to day experiences of not having enough and use that to re-condition their minds that there is not always enough.

And when I say most people, I was once like that too. And the reason for this, the reason we suffer is that because nobody really teaches us what we ought to know about life, and so, it depends whether you find this for yourself or not.

The mind, always acting on our thoughts and feelings, accepts whatever we are planting in it and use it to attract to us the perfect circumstances and situations that match our beliefs.

Here is a trick you can play on your mind, figure out how you would act and behave if you are already prosperous? You are not going to be selfish with your time and money if there was an abundance of these. Are you?

I mean, you easily give that which you have an abundance of right?

Once you’ve figured this out, begin to live this way not only in your mind but through your actions. By doing this, you bridge the gap between who you are now and who you ultimately wish to be.

An action step.

  • With your imagination, picture what your life looks like supposing you are now living the prosperous life you choose. The subconscious mind works well with vivid images of our desires.

What are your actions like? What are you doing with your life? Who is benefiting from your prosperity? and so on… Ensure your actions are once that are in congruence with prosperity and abundance.

Step Three: Become Open to Prosperity Suggestions.

becoming open to prosperity suggestions is one way to develop prosperity consciousness

An important point to note if you are seeking prosperity consciousness is that you must recognize that there are prosperity and abundance all around us.

We live in a world that is supplied with an overabundance of everything we can ever aspire to have or do.

If you look at the banking buildings, for example, what do you see? Well, I see a house that is filled with people’s money.

That’s to tell you that there is money being made everywhere, every second of every minute, money is moving in and out.

So, one way to become open to this suggestions and align yourself with prosperity is to simply go to the middle of whichever city you live in, and take a look at the beautiful houses there. The people living in those houses are just like you. Not different from you.

Feel the energy of success, silently affirm “prosperity” to yourself.

Recognize prosperity everywhere. Always keep your mind on finding prosperity everywhere because what the mind focuses on, it attracts. A good affirmation for this is everywhere I turn, I see prosperity.

Your goal here, therefore, is to surround and align yourself with energies of success and prosperity so that you can create that vibration of energy within you that will attract prosperity and success to you.

Just as negative energies are contagious and we must avoid them as much as we can, positive energies are also contagious.

Just by exposing yourself and your mind to the feeling of prosperity around you—created by other minds— you set in motion, forces within you that will attract the elements of your focus.

An action tip

  • Align yourself with the energy of prosperity. If you cannot go out to the middle of your town to experience what it feels like to be living in an environment surrounded by prosperity, then go to youtube or google and simply search for beautiful cities to live in.

When the results pop out on your screen, absorb the energies of success and prosperity from the images. Feel it as though you were actually out in the middle of the town. Imagine yourself driving through the city.

The reason for this is this, your mind does not tell the difference between what you are actually seeing and what is unreal like the youtube images you feed your mind with.

It just takes whatever you plant in it, much like the soil could care less about what type of seed you put in it.

Step Four: Replace Thoughts of Scarcity With Thoughts of Abundance.

replacing thoughts of scarcity with thoughts of abundance is a key step in developing a prosperity consciousness.

 

Naturally, we are thought from day one either by parents or by the society that life is limited in what it has to offer us.

We not only take this belief and live with it, but we even pass it on to others and the circle continues on and on…

Sad but true, most of us think about scarcity more times than we stop to consider the abundance that actually surrounds us.

For example, you want to do this, but you don’t have the money to do it. Immediately, your mind begins to remind you of all the other things you have not being able to do due to the fact that there is no fund.

It does not end there, you actually think these thoughts each and every day, reinforcing the same belief that you don’t have enough, instead of thinking in terms of what we truly want.

No wonder we create our experiences in life. The story of mankind is people who are actually selling themselves short. Said Claude Bristle.

It is very easy to think of scarcity if that is what you are experiencing practically.

However, your power comes when you cease to listen to what outside circumstances are whispering to you and instead begin to give your own commands as to what you want. Power comes when you cut yourself off from outside influences and condition your mind with the beliefs of what you want and desire.

Begin to think prosperity thoughts that will ultimately override the thoughts of scarcity in your mind.

Then, it just gets more interesting. Pay full attention to the thoughts in your head, so you can spot thoughts of lack and replace them immediately with thoughts of plenty. Guard your mind with full diligence, out of it, flows the issues of life.

So, for example, if your mind tells you there is not enough due to the fact that you are practically not having enough, do not accept that. Change it to the thought that there is more than enough for you.

Remember what we said about the mind? It does not differentiate between what is real and what is imagined.

A study actually concluded this to be true: If a man performs an activity like running, neurons in his brain fires. However interesting, if he watches someone else does the same thing or he imagines it, many of the same neurons will fire again as if he was doing it himself.

Bear in mind that your mind will always kick against new ideas and beliefs formed for the first time which is completely normal.

If you bring a child into a big new house, initially, the child plays around and around until he gets missing—he can’t find his way around—. However, with time, he begins to identify the paths and way to take.

Likewise in developing a prosperity consciousness, do not make the mistake of fighting with your mind. Just allow your mind to throw any thought at you, and if it is negative, or something about your present state of lack, then don’t listen. Just ignore.

Don’t try to defend your thoughts. Simply ignore a negative thought and pretty soon, your mind will not pick up on these negative thoughts that it used to throw at you.

An action step

  • What you want to do is to mount guard on your thoughts. Monitor every thought and identify which ones contains any elements of scarcity for example fear, doubt, laziness? All of which are elements and kindred thoughts of scarcity.

Final thoughts.

To live the life that was meant for you, First, you have to live it in your mind before it ever materializes. Do not make the mistake of living your life in the hands of fate.

Come into harmony with the prosperity and abundance that surrounds us each day.

A mind that is not favorable to prosperity and abundance—a mind buried in thoughts of fear, lack, envy etc— can and will never attract abundance to it because all over the universe like attracts like.

I know you can master these tips if you practice it consistently without giving up on your dreams.

My goal is to provide you with guidelines that you can apply and follow to get you the specific results you want, although you will have some work to do. This shit doesn’t come easy!

Well, I hope you find the above tips of value and useful if you wish to actually apply what you have learned. If you are not clear, throw your question in and we are more than happy to assist.

Before I forget, if this message is of value to you, it means it could be of value to someone else you know. True or false? Share it with your friends and you can save a soul from lack.

Also, you can like it if you want. Helps me know I did well in serving you.

With that said, I appreciate you for your time and I will see you again. Bye.

 

Not so easy steps on how to become mentally tough

How to Be Mentally Fit With 7 Not-So-Easy But Highly Rewarding Steps

Not so easy steps on how to become mentally tough

7 Powerful steps on how to achieve mental Fitness.

Hey, my friend. Thank you for reading this post.

In today’s world, eating junk and not going to the gym as we all know has a bit of consequence in us especially in our physical appearance.

The reason people get overweight and obsessed is not because of what they take in, it is actually the result of what they do not take out.

So, imagine if you are consuming high sugar diets daily, and you don’t do any form of physical exercises. It makes the condition even worse, true or false?

According to an article published in Healthline, too much sugar in the body leads to inflammation and also a major cause of cancer. And not finding a way to reduce those contents in our body makes it even exactly vulnerable to diseases.

To naturally reduce this risk, one has to physical condition himself to burn out excess sugar from the body, especially through exercises like walking, jogging, or doing any other form of exercises, which could increase overall wellbeing.

However, to gain mental fitness, the analogy used above just applies in the same sense.

If my life is not going the way I want it. If there are issues bothering on my mind each day: Perhaps I need to buy new clothes for the kids, or I need to pay the bills, or I need to fix my car, or I need to get new healthcare, or I don’t understand my girlfriend anymore blahblahblah.

If our minds are constantly pondering and reflecting on the things not going well in our lives, well, it is actually because of two main things basically:

First, it is because we have not learned that we are responsible for the very conditions in our life, and second, it’s because we have not learned how to correct them.

Our minds and bodies are one and the same and what goes on in the mind is expressed in our physical experiences.

Each and every one of us has the power and the will to adjust the things going on in our minds and clear out the things in our minds that make us feel sick, tired, worried and even depressed.

Simply put, to be mentally tough is to be conscious and aware of who we really are. To be able to stream our own thought processes and block out the things we don’t want in our lives from entering our minds.

To live a life of happiness, good health, satisfaction etc we must learn how to control our minds especially against the forces that try to steal these desires away, for example, lack of purpose, indecisiveness, worry, fear, doubt etc.

Much like physical fitness requires actively training the body and muscles, to live a life of complete bliss is not only possible but also requires training the mind.

Being fit does not imply only our physical condition, but also our emotional and mental conditions as well. We know of some persons with ripped chests and breadth chilling packs, but totally weak emotionally and spiritually.

They either suck as lovers or they lack creativity as partners. And the reason for this is that they have only trained their physical muscles but never learned to train the other parts of them that make them whole and complete—I am speaking of their mind and spirit—.

When the mind, body, and spirit are all working in a good and harmonious condition, then we can truly say we are fit and we are free.

But how do we get there?

How do we become mentally fit to withstand life’s challenges and simultaneously create the life we truly desire?

Well, the following steps I’m about to outline will give you a jump start to your own journey of self-discovery.

7 Powerful Steps To Gain Mental Fitness

Step 1 ⇒ Open Your Mind.

Step one on how to achieve mental fitness is to be completely open minded

Life is a series of experiences and adventures. The journey never ends and we never stop to learn.

But how would you learn if you are the type of person that does not question the cause of experiences?

How would you learn if you are the type that, when something bad or strange happens to you, you begin to worry and complain about every single thing? You never seem to accept the fact that life is sometimes tough for us all, but we choose what we make of it.

The first step to gain mental fitness is to accept the fact that in life, we do not know what will happen an hour from now, or at most know what will happen next week. Anything can, in fact, happen and we have to open our minds to that fact to be able to accept whatever happens and direct them accordingly.

Not to expect something bad happening to us, but to adjust our attitudes and behaviors if something bad should happen. Basically, you can call this a defense strategy.

Most people do not learn from their experiences simply because they do not open their minds. They expect life to go this way, and then when it goes the other way, they are utterly worried and confused, feeling down, closing their minds from learning from the very experience that is meant to teach them.

They do not realize that the wind blows indefinitely, in any direction, likewise our experiences in life.

Step 2 ⇒ Inner And Outer World.

Step two on how to achieve mental fitness is to understand more about the inner and the outer world and learn how to use one in creating the other

Shout out to John Kehoe, who first introduced me to this idea of the inner and outer worlds.

So, before I begin to tell you that you are the cause of everything that happens to you. I want you to consider something first:

We are constantly living simultaneously in two different worlds; inner and outer world. The outer world is the physical manifestation of the inner world, for example, situations in our lives, circumstances, events, etc.

The inner world is the world of our thoughts, beliefs, consciousness, emotions, and self-image. The inner world is our world of power.

Whatever thought impressed in our inner world is expressed in our outer world. So, often times, because we lack this basic understanding, whatever happens in our outer world is what we react to.

That is to say, what happens in our lives is what we take in our inner world and go over again and again until it becomes impressed and thus re-creating the same experiences in our outer world.

The Subconscious mind is constantly collecting our thoughts and feelings and constantly creating our futures with it.

Something sad happened at work, maybe you got laid off, and immediately, you take it in and begin to go over it all over in your mind, doubting yourself, feeling worried, feeling your confidence down, feeling utterly confused as to what to do next.

When we think thoughts, we are attracting to us the very element of the things we are thinking about, and the stronger these thoughts in our minds, the stronger it pulls it kindred experiences to us.

So, thinking about the things going wrong in our lives means we are indeed giving life to the very circumstances that we do not want to experience merely by going over them again in our minds.

If you want to change the experiences in your outer world, what you need to do is to change how you think and feel about yourself in your inner world first and then, your outer world will gradually adjust to fit your inner world.

You can watch the video below by John Kehoe on this subject, I am sure it will change your life:

Step 3 ⇒ Program A New Belief System.

Step three on how to achieve mental fitness is to learn how to program new beliefs

Too often our beliefs about ourselves and the world are hurting us far more than we know. Whatever you believe in is what manifests for you.

If you believe cancer runs in your family, and that it’s in your gene, then you are in short, opening yourself saying “cancer, wherever you are, I’m open, come and get me” lol.

Thoughts are creating forces in our lives, constantly at work in us. If we become what we think about, then to change our old thoughts, we must first identify the belief behind them.

So, if we think, we never have enough, or that money is hard to make, or that there is not enough money to be made, it is because of the beliefs that we hold about money. We usually believe and see money as a limited commodity even as we live in a world of filled with abundance, where there is so much money for everyone to make.

To change our thoughts and focus them more directly on the things we want, we must first program a new belief in the possibilities of the things we want.

For example, if it is money you want to make, the first thing you want to do is learn how to program prosperity consciousness in your mind. Without preparing your mind to attract money, money will not flow to you. Finally, what you want to do is program the idea in your mind that you are able to make any amount of money you choose.

If you don’t know how to program beliefs, one way to program a new belief in our mind is to repeat an idea over and over again in the conscious mind, until gradually, it begins to sink into the subconscious mind which then forms our core beliefs.

Once an idea sinks into the subconscious mind, it becomes a belief and therefore begins to attract all the elements of that belief.

For example, if you program your mind over and over again with the belief that you are rich, what happens is that, as this thought gets deeply impressed in the subconscious mind, it begins to attract the core qualities of riches and success like confidence and courage to you.

Whatever you choose to have, or do, plant the idea in mind and continually water it with thoughts always directed towards the same end.

Step 4 ⇒ Become Your Chief Personal Guard.

Step four on how to achieve mental fitness is to stand guard of your own thought processes. Be your own chief security guard

Everything that happens in your life takes it root in how you think.

The truth —and the problem—  is that 99.9% of us think with zero conscious attention. We allow every thought—positive or negative—  to get by and enter our subconscious mind where they begin their influences.

To really become mentally fit and live the life that you desire, a very wise thing to do is to become more attentive to your minute to minute thought.

You want to be able to think what you choose, feel the emotions you truly want to experience, and never allow external circumstances to dictate your moment to moment emotions. Basically, we want to cut out thoughts not related to the things we want in life.

We are constantly thinking thoughts, these thoughts are not just something to be ignored and left to chance because they are constantly creating our future right now. As a man, thinketh so he is.

What we want to do is to have an idea in our minds of how we would want our lives to look like, and then hold that thought in our minds for as long as we can, acting in accordance with the thoughts of our true desire at all times.

While holding this idea in mind, temporary circumstances and events may arise to try to discourage us and distract our focus. This is when we need to pay attention to the things our minds are telling us; our internal dialogue.

Before now, you used to listen and believe everything your mind tells you to, now you realize you indeed have the power to control and direct your mind where you choose to focus it.

The reality is that, if you do not learn how to control your thoughts, then every circumstance and events happening around you will always find ways into your mind, whether or not these circumstances have positive or negative effects on you.

The moment we begin to pay more attention to our thoughts, then we can quickly identify thoughts coming from without, thoughts that are unrelated with our desires and so, we can either choose to entertain them or block them from staying on our mind.

Keep in mind that where the mind goes, energy flows. Your mind will draw the things that stay on it to your life. “For the things, I greatly feared has come upon me

Step 5 ⇒ Invest Energy In Things You Have A Passion For.

 

Step 5 on how to achieve mental fitness is to spend more time and energy doing things that enliven us

So, mental fitness also includes how successful we become in life. You will not be mentally fit if you have piles of bills to pay or things you wish to do and cannot do due to limitations. To become successful in our lives, we want to align the things we do with who we really are inside.

One way to do this is by expending more energy in doing the things we already love to do, and that we enjoy doing.

Most people do jobs that are totally unrelated to who they are inside, for example, someone with a passion for music going to work in the bank.

The effect of this is always tiredness, feeling lazy, feeling powerless, feeling frustrated and forced to go to work. No wonder people return from work on Fridays feeling like it’s an escape from Panama prison.

Such people as you may have guessed are far from being fit mentally, physically and emotionally due to always feeling tired, depressed and weak.

To become really free, you want to stop whatever you are doing now that is not giving you the feeling of satisfaction you want, and begin spending your time, money and energy doing the things that bring you joy.

To focus your energy on developing your craft requires some time because gaining mastery requires time, commitment and patience. However, if it is something you really love and enjoy, the process will not bother you so much. And you will always find it easy to move through the hard times.

If you don’t have a passion for anything yet, ask yourself, what are the things you do on the daily basis that you really enjoy? and then listen and watch carefully everything you do, from how you sleep with how you eat to how you dress etc. You will find out the things you do that gives you joy. Whatever you find out is where your passion is and that is what you want to cultivate.

Step 6 ⇒ Learn To Take Timeouts To Recover And Recharge.

Step six on how to achieve mental fitness is to learn to take time off to recover and rechardge

It is true that we want more results in our businesses and careers, and it is important to work our ass out. That may be true for some, however, the brains creativity is enhanced when not under pressure.

To get you the results you want, you must learn to take time at intervals where you do not think about work but just do something mundane like taking a walk in nature or spending some quality time with yourself doing nothing work-related.

The purpose of this is that working too much and not giving ourselves adequate time to relax and recover is like shooting out legs in the foot.

It is something we would not want to do to someone we truly love, but we do it to ourselves.

In the book The Power Of Full Engagement, Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz pointed out that 60 — 90 minutes of intense focus followed by shorter minutes of recovery allows for optimal performance.

Often times, because we think we have so much work on our tables, and no time to rest, we feel powerless and not in control of our lives. We do have the power and support if we want to decide how we ultimately live our lives.

Love and respect yourself. Give your body the right treatments it needs so that it can, in turn, serve you even longer. You have the power within you to choose how your life goes, what kind of job you do etc.

Step 7 ⇒ Be grateful for life.

 

Step seven on how to achieve mental fitness is to learn how to be grateful for every area of our lives.

It will take a whole new article to explain the effect and benefits of gratitude so I suggest you read here if you want to know why you must be grateful.

Other than that, gratitude helps you come in unity with life. Not trying to force life on your expectations but showing appreciation for everything that happens around you and in your life.

Too often we worry when things are going wrong than we show gratitude for the little things that we already enjoy.

A father feels more inclined to show more kindness to a child that is more appreciative than the others. True or False?

Gratitude will take your pains and burdens away just by deciding to let go and instead be grateful. Nothing happens in your life as well as mine by chance. There is always a perfect reason, however, if you don’t know that, then you will worry and feel depressed every time something is going wrong.

Keep in mind that everything that happens in your life, happens for your good.

To be fit mentally, you must let go of the daily experiences in your life that puts a weight on you and just be grateful for any and everything that comes your way.

My Final Thought.

These steps are not very easy as they seem I know, but with practice and commitment, anyone can master them and thus become fit mentally, physically and spiritually.

Spiritual blessings always come with a price, a sacrifice that you must be willing to make. However, no matter what the price is, the results always outshines the price you paid.

Apply the steps if you decide to be mentally fit, and watch how a single decision can revolutionize your entire life.

It is my intention to bring value to you with this guide on how to be mentally fit and enjoy your life never feeling depressed, stressed out, worried even in the face of your oppositions like most of us do and live an ever joyful life.

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With that said, I appreciate your time and have a blissful day. Bye.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How To Cure Malaria Fever And Be Free Without Taking Any Form Of Medication With 4 Steps.

How To Cure Malaria Fever And Be Free Without Taking Any Form Of Medication With 4 Steps.

4 proven ways on how to cure malaria fever and be free without taking any form of medication.

How to cure malaria fever with 4 powerful steps without ever visiting the doctor or taking any kind of medications.

Hi there, thanks for checking this article.

According to data provided in the chart below, there were over 2.5 million+ death recorded from the year 2000 to 2015. Deaths caused by malaria fever.

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Diseases are killing us like flies every day.

Is this what we have been created for? Does it mean we cannot take control of our health and our lives without having to depend on the hands of fate?

What if nature has provided us with good and perfect health regardless of the number of global warmings and every other natural disaster that threatens our existence as a global family?

In this post, I am going to be revealing some ways you can use to take personal responsibility for your own health, without having to worry about fever or depend on the medics for good health.

But, before we delve into that, just a brief disclaimer:

This article does not serve as a guarantee Disclaimer on How To Cure Malaria Fever And Be Free Without Taking Any Form Of Medication With 4 Steps.that you will magically become healed if you are sick. Go and get good treatments for yourself first.

However, here are what you are going to learn:

  1. You will learn how to be in control of your own health so that you will never have to fall ill or be in the hand of fate.

  2. How to condition your mind to bring you the good health that you deserve.

  3. How to keep your body fit and healthy at all times.

You ready? Boom! Let’s jump right in.

As human beings, our systems are designed to withstand even the toughest and harshest conditions but too often the reverse is the case.

We have heard of cases where people mysteriously survived even the most dreaded diseases.

Lance Armstrong was diagnosed with a virulent form of testicular cancer that spread in a short time from his lungs then to his brain. Armstrong’s chances of surviving were less than 3 percent, but somehow mysteriously he survived.

“The truth is that if you ask me to choose between winning Tour de France and cancer, I would choose cancer. As odd as it may sound, I would rather have the title of cancer survivor than winning the tour, because of what it had done for me as a human being, a man, a husband, a son and a father.” —Lance Armstrong Winner 1999 Tour de France(the most challenging bicycle race in the world.)

The placebo effect, for example, is a new way medics have long found to treat patients much more effectively compared with the traditional way of treating patients and it is gaining popularity every day. 

In this process, patients simply believe that a treatment or process will work regardless of what the treatment actually is. For example, they may take something that looks to them like a real drug for a migraine headache but is not and still get cured without actually taking an actual drug like ibuprofen(a drug for migraine.)

However, the whole idea behind this post is that —regardless of the religion you belong to— is this:

Our minds and bodies are interconnected, and whatever goes on in the mind is reflected outwardly in our lives, and we are much more powerful and special than we think we are.

From the time we are little infants, our minds begin to work, learning, gathering new data about us and our environment, building our self-concept, forming our beliefs and performing much more tasks.

Too often what we learn is that it is natural to fall sick, which is true because if we think about it, we see and hear of people falling sick everywhere. We even witness the sickness of a loved one and so on…

From there, our minds begin to form the belief that sickness is a natural part of our life, and that we can be sick “no problem” as long as we rely on the doctors and other external sources for our well-being.

And so, this becomes a part of our belief system: the idea that it is a natural thing to fall sick. Keep in mind that our beliefs determine everything that happens to us in life.

From how rich we will become, to who we end up with as life partners, to how peaceful we become in our world etc.

Everything begins with our belief.

So, because we believe that it is ok to be sick, we do not realize our own powers as humans. We simply give our powers away to conventional beliefs.

Countless numbers of studies have shown that an individual’s perception determines the programs that run in their genes. So if you think that a particular disease runs in your family, then it is your thought that creates that program and makes you vulnerable to such ailment at any time. Not that it is a fact that the disease actually runs in your family.

If we believe that sickness is a normal thing people experience in life, then we become susceptible to sickness, and we release harmful chemicals in our bodies that makes it difficult for our body to resist or fight against harmful pathogens that may infect and cause it to become sick.

What can we do?

Here are 4 Ways We Can Use To Cure Ourselves Of Illness Without Taking Any Form Of Medication:

While these are very powerful techniques all on their own, we must learn to follow them accordingly in their order of importance.

Step 1: Never Listen or Agree to the Symptoms.

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I refuse to listen to you telling me I’m sick.

As humans, we tend to listen and agree to the things our minds tell us. We make the terrible mistake of thinking and believing that everything our mind tells us is absolutely true.

So, we not only allow our minds to make conclusions for us but also we allow it to deceive us.

For example, maybe I have a terrible headache and my temperature is running really high, the next thing my mind tells me is that I am having symptoms of a fever.

Because I believe whatever my mind tells me (not having the courage to question it), I begin to think it is true that I am having fever symptoms, and that I could become sick any moment, so the next thing to do is get myself treated.

On a very normal basis, this is how our minds have been trained to work. And we might even think it is, in fact, true what our mind is saying, that we are indeed having these symptoms, otherwise we would not be having headaches and running temperature, right?

But here’s the catch: This is how our minds trick us.

Because we have not learned to master our minds, we allow our minds to master us. Telling us whatever it wants and making us believe in it.

Note: In reality, our minds cannot tell the difference between what is real and what is imagined. It simply accepts whatever we think as true.

So, when we feel the symptoms of an illness, and we think it is actually true that we are ill, then we make that statement true for ourselves, and we give away the same power to restore and recover our healths naturally unless we have to go the doctors.

Here is what you must do:

Never accept whatever your mind tells you as true. If you are having symptoms of any kind of ailment, it is because you have allowed the thought of that ailment to remain in your mind over time, and because of that, the mind will always reflect back to you that state of mind, whether or not you remember or even believe in it.

We all have the power to choose health over sickness at any point in time. So, even if you feel sick today, do not accept the fact that you feel sick. Tell your mind over and over again that you are strong and healthy.

Remember what we said earlier that our minds are very good at learning just like babies learn. Repeat something to a baby over and over again, and that baby will pick it up.

Likewise our minds. If you tell the mind something over and over again, it will get to a point where it finally accepts it as true and begins to act on it.

As humans, we do have the power to take control over our lives, direct our health and well-being the way we choose. And all that power lies in our minds.

Napoleon Hill once said: “If you want the mind to pick up an idea and to form a habit, you’ve got to tell the mind what you want over and over again, no end to it.

When we stop listening to what our minds tell us regardless of our physical conditions and instead begin to plant in ideas about what we truly want in life in our mind, then we can say we are now taking back powers in our own hands because remember, the mind does not tell the difference between what is true or false. It simply accepts —as commands— and acts on whatever we think repeatedly. So command it wisely!

Step 2: Keep Your Mind Positive About Your Physical Condition.

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it requires a healthy body and a positive frame of mind to be fully present in nature.

Once we stop listening to what our minds tell us about our own physical condition, the next thing we can begin to do is keep our minds positive especially towards ourselves and our well-being at all times.

Keep in mind that the mind and body are one system connected together. Whatever goes on in the mind is reflected outwardly on the body.

This is why it has been proven that negative thoughts of hatred, anger, envy, etc, can actually release harmful chemicals in the body which in turn can make us sick or even prone to early death.

Knowing that our minds do not differentiate between whether or not we are healthy or sick, and that it simply accepts the thought that is dominant in it and uses that to create our physical experiences, will it not be wise for us to trick our minds into believing that we are healthy and strong at all times even when we are down instead of allowing it to trick us into believing we are sick?

The mind does not actually know if we are sick or not. But because we feel the symptoms of an illness, it is easy to believe we are sick or going to be sick when it tells us like it is.

Keeping our minds positive towards our physical well-being—thinking good health at all times—programs the mind to attract good health to us, whether or not there is an outbreak of Ebola virus or Lassa, our minds do not care.

The reason for is this is that any thought or idea repeated in the conscious mind over and over again is taken over by the subconscious mind and acted upon immediately.

If what goes on in our mind is thoughts of poor health, then we are invariably causing our mind to attract to us experiences that will lead us to not having a good health, either in the form of keeping unhealthy diets, or generally acting in ways that will be harmful to our health.

We have just begun to unlock the hidden potentials of the human mind—what our own minds can do— and the fact that we can enjoy a life of abundance of good health has long been validated.

Throughout the world, people are thriving in good health and general well-being simply because they became aware of the powers of their minds and how to actually use it to create whatever it is they want in life.

You too must endeavor to enjoy this great reservoir of potential available to you as a human. Whatever you want in life(good health, prosperity and so on…) can be realized. All you need to do is plant the thought in your mind and nurture it constantly all day every day.

Here’s what you must do:

  • Write the following 5 statements down on paper and carry it with you everywhere you go, reading it to yourself at all times:

I am healthy, I am strong, I am fit, I never fall sick,  all of the organs in my body are functioning perfectly.

The idea is for you to fill your mind with the thoughts of good health, and never listen to what your body is saying, whether or not you are going through temporary pains or illness. Only allow the good thoughts of what you truly want to stay in your mind.

Occasionally, your mind may tend to trick you with thoughts of you being sick, just ignore and discard it. Do not interact with it nor even try to defend against it. Bring out your paper one more time and repeat the words you have written to your self.

Keep on doing this until those words have been memorized, and you can easily and automatically think them without having to hold your paper. The more you repeat these statements to yourself, the stronger the belief it forms.

Your goal here is to get your mind to believe in it so that you never believe in sickness or disease, only good health, and abundance.

 

Step 3: Teach Your Mind To Believe In Perfect Health.

 

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I am ready to enjoy perfect health

Just like we said earlier that our minds are capable of learning and that everything we experience in life is a collection of what our minds have learned over time, therefore, will it not be wise to teach the mind empowering beliefs about ourselves and how we want our lives to look like?

The mind is perhaps the most powerful thing in the whole universe and we all have it. “The mind is everything, what you think repeatedly you become.“— Buddha.

However, the experiences we face in life are just reflections of what goes on within us.

By teaching the mind empowering beliefs like the statements listed above, the mind begins to adopt a new model and gradually discards the old one. The one that has made us believe in sickness and diseases as natural things in life.

We have always attracted the things we are conscious of, we just don’t realize it. For example, if we are conscious that there is always lack, and that there isn’t enough, then our minds go to work attracting to us, the circumstances, situations, events, and people that will match the things we are conscious of.

Recession, bad economy or even losing your job can be one of the ways your mind will make sure you experience the thoughts and emotions you have planted in it.

Similarly, if we are conscious of the things we truly want in life like love, abundance, good health, joy, happiness, etc. Then it attracts these things into our lives. This means we become what we think about all day long.

But, how do we become conscious of the things we truly desire most in life?

Very simple.

How we become conscious of the things we want in life is exactly how we became conscious of the multiplications table in pre-nursery schools.

By repeating the two times table in our minds day after day, our mind picked it up and we became conscious of it to the point where we can say it in our sleep.

However, because we were not used to repeating the higher multiplication tables, it is hard to answer questions like seven times fourteen without using a calculator.

Similarly, we can teach our minds empowering beliefs by repeating certain words and phrases to our mind each and every day, until we are conscious and sure of it like our two times table.

Sometimes, we do not believe in the positive things we tell ourselves. For example, a person may say I am healthy but does not really believe in it. And that is the beautiful thing: you don’t have to believe in it first.

Just by repeating certain words over and over again in the conscious mind, it will reach a point where the mind picks it up and molds it into a strong hard-to-break belief system.

That is why a man can tell little white lies until he himself believes in it.

Here’s what to do:

  • Practice imprinting empowering beliefs about your health daily. One of the wisest things you can do is not to wait until the next time you fall ill before affirming good health.

Begin today to plant the idea of good health in your mind. Start to teach your mind how to be healthy every day by thinking and being grateful for your health, regardless of what state it’s in.

  • Be grateful for the state of your health. One very powerful thing you can do is instead of complaining and worrying about your health like most people do, begin to give thanks for the conditions of your life.

Whether or not it is how you want it to be, be grateful for that state of your health every day. Science has shown that the feeling of gratitude tends to attract other things to be grateful for.

So, a wise thing to do to ensure a life of a smoothness and good health is to be grateful for our health every time, whether in good health or in bad health.

 

Step 4: Keep Your Body Active And Fit.

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You choose how you appear

This is the part that most of us do not like to hear, but I will tell you like it is (SORRY!)

Keeping our body physically active increases our chances of well being. Too often we claim to not have the time to exercise our bodies but we do have the time to run to the doctor when diseases strike.

Personally, I workout every day even the times when I felt like falling sick, I still proved stubborn and didn’t give in to the impulse of lying in bed after 5 AM in the morning.

Now, I am not asking you to do the same because you might not be used to it just yet, but I was once the guy that hated the idea of working out every day because of how uncomfortable it made me feel, until I found that it was among the most important personal investment I could ever make.

Science now proves that the benefits of exercising each day go way beyond having ripped chests and breath-chilling abs, but also, the cognitive effects it enhances.

Resilience, great mental focus/clarity, fitness, increase in physical, emotional and spiritual sources of energy just to name a few, are among the benefits of working out daily.

How much exercise do you need to enjoy all these?

Well, not much.

15 — 30 minutes of aerobic exercise each day can change how our brain works. Just by waking up in the morning, and getting our heart pounding can dramatically improve our mood for the whole day.

You may not find it fun (like me) to stick to daily exercise routines like lifting weights or running certain kilometers daily but by taking baby steps each day, doing the little things like walking around the block, we may develop greater interests and strength for more serious routines like running certain distances.

Do not let the feeling of discomfort discourage you. It is natural for our brains to try to guide us from those things that make us feel discomfort, but if you really wish to not only live a healthy life, but also thrive in a world that is filled with sick people dying and also the chances of falling sick, then you have got to take responsibility for your personal well-being, and one way you can ensure that is by training your body daily.

Here’s what you must do:

  • Incorporate a daily workout routine: Make plans to exercise your body every day. Set specific workout goals and ignore the impulse of not keeping to them.

If waking up early to workout makes you sick, that’s ok, at least it was like that for most of us too, but you must begin forming your new habit by telling your self every day that you love to wake up each morning and exercise.

This is not about setting alarm clocks or keeping it away in order to motivate you into getting up and hitting the gym because we know that many people who did not stick to their daily routines tried that.

However, our goal is to plant the habit first in our minds so that it becomes more automatic and without too much conscious effort.

Keep repeating this statement (I love to exercise my body every day because I respect my body) every single time and your mind will pick it up and use it to form your new habit of acting in ways that improve not just your health but your life.

 

Final Words:

We all have great reservoirs of powers and potential waiting for us to use.

If we are not making use of this unlimited stream of fresh power then we are missing out on the things we are supposed to be enjoying in life and we are selling ourselves short.

Since we now know that our minds have the ability to create whatever we choose, we can, therefore, teach our minds to create just the things we want in our lives and for our world and ignore the things we do not want.

The above steps do not guarantee that you are going to become magically cured if you are sick, but it teaches you how to respond to your physical conditions, and with the right frame of mind, you can, therefore, overcome the things that make you weak in spirit or make you fall sick.

It is my intention that you receive this message with an open heart and take it for what it is worth.

Apply the above steps to gain back control of not only your health but your whole life.

But before you go…

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I really thank you for your time, and I hope you have an amazing day.

Bye for now!

 

 

How to Break The Bad Habit Of Procrastination With 6 Easy Steps.

Overcome the giant of procrastination.

How to break the bad habit of procrastination?

Hi there, thank you for reading this article.

Of course “how do I stop procrastinating” is the question of the century.

In this article, I want to share a few things I really think we all should know about as to why so many of us, no matter how we try to break this habit, it doesn’t work, and we find ourselves spinning back to where we have always been.

First, I want to be straight up with you and tell you like it is. This article is not meant for everyone obviously. Failure in life is an unfortunate reality, but it is inevitable.

Some persons are simply conditioned to fail. These people, no matter how much information they receive, no matter how much you try to help them, they will always find ways to fail.

Our lives are a bundle of habits. From how we sleep, eat, stand, talk, laugh etc. Mostly about 90 percent of the things we do are ingrained in our habits.

Also, our successes in life are born by certain habit, similarly as our failures are the result of certain habits we have allowed to take permanence over time.

In my own opinion, it’s not a question of “how to stop procrastination” but “why do we have to stop it?

Let’s be honest with ourselves first, a proc (someone that procrastinates) may find the conditions in his life not the way he wants it to be, and may express part of his discomfort by seeking out information on how to change his life.

However, seeking knowledge is one thing, taking on it is another. The same reason he has always been a proc will kick in again, making him procrastinate on the actions he needs to take.

Such a person needs to come to the realization of what he really wants, and the rituals he needs to take.

Without have a clear image of what he wants to do, and having a solid idea why he wants to do it, it is really difficult to break some habits that may act as obstacles, and stop him from reaching where he wants to go.

 

As a guy that never liked school, I always found myself putting off an assignment that needed to be tackled, shifting study time etc. Until it came few days to the exam, and there was no time left to study the things I know I should have.

Looking back now, I can detect a very strong reason for my procrastinating: First, I never liked school, to be honest, so the motivation to study for exams and other things was very low. As humans, we tend to be more engaged and motivated towards things we feel highly passionate about, for example, I would never go a day without exercising my body.

The way our brains are wired, we tend to do more of the things we enjoy doing, simply because our actions literally program our brain to be better at what we do. This is known as neuroplasticity.

If done right, we can program our brains to break the habit of procrastinating.

How?

First, decide what you want to do, and why you want to do it. For example, if what you want to do is to give your momma a better life, maybe because you love her so much and you think you can provide more for her, then you know you are not going to be able to do it without a war. First, you will need to change your old beliefs and behaviors. For freedom is preceded by war.

By deciding on what you want to do, why you want it, you find an increased emotional strength, which empowers you to take necessary actions regardless of what they might cost you.

Next, is by taking baby steps. Keep in mind that, habits are hardcoded and are not very easy to change. If it was, then most people will be in better shape.

By realizing this fact, and understanding the basic plastic features of the brain, we recognize the importance of taking baby steps.

Taking baby steps is actually a process of setting the groundwork for change. Most people want to break the bad habit of procrastinating but have not made the necessary preparations to actually help the brain stop it.

Don’t forget, the brain finds it entirely stressful and exhausting to engage in an entirely new activity so it will be a long uphill battle if you try to implement such change all at once without taking gradual steps. It’s just like asking someone who has never swum before to deep his face inside the water.

One thing you should note is that, during the entire process of making change, do not be harsh on yourself. Most times when we are trying to get better, we tend to condemn ourselves the more when we are not performing to our full expectation.

So, calm down, take it easy on yourself. Visualize the possible outcome you want to experience, and know that it is going to take gradual steps to actually make the change happen.

Breaking procrastination by taking baby steps is like going to the gym and building the muscles. If you have never used the gym or you are just starting out, you are not going to start noticing a change in your physical appearance the first few days to use the gym.

It takes a gradual step by step process, usually months, to see real change happening. Likewise, when we try to develop new parts of the brain. By taking little steps consistently, we build up mental muscles much like we build physical muscles.

By overcoming the habit of procrastinating minor and mundane tasks, mental capacities begin to develop its muscles. Let’s say you intend to take the trash out of the kitchen by 7am(as mundane as it may sound). Once it is time, actually take it out.

Do not buy any reason that will make you not want to take it out. Even so, it doesn’t end there. After taking it out, acknowledge it. Let yourself know you did what you said you were going to do. Reward yourself appropriately by accomplishing such a minor task.

By doing so, you are creating a new neural pathway in your brain. By actually training yourself to fulfill the little tasks every day, you prepare yourself to further take on bigger and more important challenging tasks.

Breaking the habit of procrastination doesn’t happen by chance, it happens when there is a strong reason for what you want to do. And from there taking necessary baby steps to prepare your brain for the change to come.

From taking the necessary baby steps to overcome the habit of procrastinating, we can actually take the game to a whole new level. We can harness our own habit of procrastination to uncover more of our innate potential.

Without rainfall, we would not value sunshine. Similarly, without the habit of procrastinating, we would not realize how much we can get done. Unfortunately, only a few people learn to harness this habit.

Follow the following steps to not only overcome procrastination but also, to learn more about yourself and what you can actually accomplish in life.

More Steps On How to Defeat The Unfriendly Monster.

 1. Know Thy Self.

Knowing yourself is one method on how to break the habit of procrastination. Once you know yourself, then you know what you want.

What are your reasons for procrastinating? What little voice do you keep hearing in your head as to why you should neglect important things and do them later?

Sometimes, by analyzing our own lives, we tend to understand more about ourselves. Often, things we never knew about.

If we make a study of our own habits, then we can ask ourselves questions that help us uncover more of the subtle things happening every now and then that we do not know about.

For example, listen to the things you tell yourself the next time you are in the middle of procrastination: its always something that sounds like crap. “I can’t handle that project now, I feel too tired. I need to get some sleep.” “I am supposed to wake up and exercise today, but I feel too sleepy, I will try my best tomorrow to get up on time” blablabla

By making a study of the responses and feedbacks we keep giving ourselves, we learn that we are actually responsible for most of the troubles we go through in life. Keep in mind that every word we say to ourselves, whether in the form of a feedback or affirmation, are like computer programs that run once installed. Similarly, our thoughts and words serve as mental programs that not only affects how our brains work, but it determines what we experience in life to a large extent.

These flimsy reasons we keep giving ourselves for not wanting to take action not only deprives us from taking steps to better our lives, it also does something more to us: it conditions us to act in certain ways more often.

To deal with the habit of procrastinating, we must learn to change the negative voices in our head as to why we cannot do something meaningful and important at the right time. That is, we must begin to pay attention to what we are telling ourselves in our own minds.

It is true that the mind does not care what is planted in it, much like the soil doesn’t care what is planted in it. So, one thing we can do is to plant in our minds new thoughts and ideas about what we want in life.

It’s like planting a seed and nurturing it. We all know it will definitely grow right?

For example, if we want to be more disciplined, then we can begin by planting the idea of self-discipline in our minds, telling ourselves often enough I am disciplined, I always get things done.

The more we repeat the positive words and thoughts, the quicker they begin to take root and starts to develop in us.

So, our primary goal here is to always catch ourselves every time we try to escape the important things we need to do by giving negative excuses about our capability to get things done.

Once we catch a negative response, the next thing to do immediately is to change it instantly, never allowing it to spread through our minds.

2. Commit Yourself To Daily Action.

One step on how to break the habit of procrastination is by having daily action plans, and following through those plans.

Set daily goals for yourself. Remember, No matter how small they are.

Set your goals and include time limits to which you must get your tasks done.

It could be doing your laundry from 7:30am—8:00am, exercising from 5:30am—6:30am.

No matter what your goals are, begin your exercise by setting minor goals you can handle, just like we talked about earlier. Take baby steps, do not go overboard and make a list of all the things you need to do, because you will end up pushing them off.

Set little goals, goals that you have the ability to handle.

A word of caution here: Sometimes, you don’t feel like doing the things you have committed yourself to do. This is where self-discipline and integrity come into play.

Your ability to do the things you said you will do, long after the feeling to do it is gone. This one ability will help you reprogram your brain and conquer procrastination.

It will prepare you for the future when the time comes and opportunities present themselves to you. This is because, by conditioning your brain to take up an easy challenge, it becomes easier to try more challenging goals.

    3. Develop Self-discipline. 

self-discipline is a key component on how to break the habit of procrastination.

Again, self-discipline is the key to living a productive life.

As emotional creatures, we tend to do things regarding how we feel about them. We tend to do things according to what we feel.

So, if we feel good today about going to the gym tomorrow, by tomorrow, we find ourselves actually in the gym. But, what about the days we just don’t feel like it? What happens on the days when the motivations are not there?

Well, most people will have to wait until they are in the mood before they can do the work.

Understand that emotions are temporary. They come and go. Today you might feel like it, but by tomorrow, the feeling is gone.

Will you wait to be in a good mood before acting on things you know are important?

The only way to solve this is to actually resolve and convince yourself that whether or not you are in the mood to get something done, you will get it done, regardless.

The reason most people procrastinate is, they tell themselves they are going to do stuff, and then when the time comes to actually do it, the feeling is no longer there, and then they are prompted to extend it to a later time when they might be in the mood again.

Understand this when you commit to getting things done: Your feelings will always change but do not let it matter. Just do it.

This mental attitude alone can change the way your brain works because by training yourself to get things done, you only become even better at it.

  4. Practice Positive Self-Talks.

practicing positive self talk is one step on how to break the habit of procrastination. By telling yourself the right words all the time, your brain begins to act on the new commands while old once grow powerless more and more.

Never tell yourself, “I don’t think I can do this now” or “It’s not possible to do it now.”

Banish negative self-talk. It’s costing you more than you know.

Your brain is a super-computer, and your thoughts and words are programs it runs on.

Program it with negative self-talk, and it does its magical computation bringing you negative experiences. Plant in positive self-talk and it brings you positive life experiences.

Every thought you think, every word you say to yourself creates your self-concept. Your self-concept is the bundle of beliefs about your self, stored in your subconscious or higher mind, so if you say “I can’t do this now” or “it’s impossible to do this,” you are absolutely right. It because you already believe you can’t, and that is what the brain works with: your self-image.

Your brain will do the things you believe you can do, and never attempt the things you believe you can’t since it doesn’t like to be stressed trying out new things.

This is the beginning of failure in people’s lives. They program their brains with the belief that they can’t do this or they can’t do that, that this is too difficult, I’ve never done this before blah blah blah. Unknowing to them that they are only serving the brain the right instruments or raw materials to work with.

Feed your mind with empowering beliefs. Beliefs that anything is possible for you. That you can do anything you set yourself to do. Feed your mind daily with this thoughts until it becomes a deep-rooted belief.

These self-talks will program your brain to recognize difficulties and challenges as an interesting part of this game of life. Tell yourself all the time: challenges are my friend.

 

    5. Develop Your Learning Ability.

one step on how to break the habit of procrastination is to put ourselves in a learning enviroment.

“The four most important things in life is: live, love, learn and leave a legacy.”

All of life is a continuous process of learning. Learning about life, learning about yourself, learning a new skill, learning from an experience etc.

“The man who is not learning every day is really not living, though he may be alive.” — Alex

Develop the habit of continuous learning. Learn from any and everything. From your experiences, from people’s experiences, including learning new skills and interests. Make your life an exciting adventure and not a bore.

Another reason people fail in life is this: they think they have to know it all before engaging in an act of importance. So they tend to not do the important things because they think they don’t know how to do it.

A wise man realizes that success and failure go together.

When you fail, try another approach, keep trying until you find a way that works. There will be no light without darkness. There will be no success without failure. You don’t even need to know it all before beginning. Start out from where you are, with what you have, and learn as you go.

Keep learning and keep growing.

    6. Reward Your Effort.

Rewarding ourselves on the little things we do helps us break the habit of procrastination.

After completing an important task, give yourself a treat, you deserve it.

Your brain loves rewarding activities. The mesolimbic dopamine pathway is thought to play a primary role in the reward system. It connects the ventral tegmental area (VTA), one of the principal dopamine-producing areas in the brain, with the nucleus accumbens, an area found in the ventral striatum that is strongly associated with motivation and reward.

Take a walk with your dog, do something fun. Puff some smoke in the air if you love to.

Enjoy your life while learning and growing. Life is much more enjoyable when there is a lot of interesting and exciting things taking place.

Developing the habit of rewarding yourself after successful completion of tasks will not only make you feel better, it will also condition you to get more things done in the future.

Final Thought.

Procrastination can be a good influence in our lives, depending on how we interpret it. It can actually make us better, by learning to procrastinate the unimportant things and getting the important things done.

Choosing to see a Netflix movie later so you can get an important task done is a positive effect of procrastination.

Unfortunately, most of us will rather postpone the important things and then expend our energies in doing the unimportant things.

Breaking this habit begins by taking baby steps. Developing self-discipline to do little things, until, those little things begin to turn to major things, and you find yourself in the habit of getting things done.

Go through the steps above, don’t forget, you cannot begin to implement the whole idea all at once, however, begin by cultivating one that you choose to practice first and go with that.

I hope this article has inspired you, and don’t forget to kindly share your thoughts with us if you have any suggestions.

If you do have any question or something you need to find help with, just leave a comment below and we will get back to you.

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Thanks once again for your time, and have a great time. Bye Bye!

We find happiness by having reasons to create it for ourselves. Most often, it comes from our decision to be happy.

These 5 Beliefs Are Keeping You From Being Happy.

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Hey there, thank you for reading this post.

In the following lines, I believe you will discover some really obvious reasons why most people no matter how hard they try, are never happy.

The harder they work, the more the frustrations they create in their lives.

I believe one of our primary goals is the pursuit of happiness.

Why then, does it seem to happen to only a few?

What is it that we are not aware of that’s robbing us of our happiness in life? And how can we make the change necessary to restore a more happy living?

There are very obvious reasons behind the level of happiness we feel in life, including the level of misery and frustration we experience.

In the words of Ralph Hars: “Happiness is a choice, not a result. Noting will make you happy until you chose to be happy. No person will make you happy until you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you, it can only come from you.”

In my own observation, there are 5 basic myths that are still keeping us from living the life designed for designed for us.

Look, I don’t want you to believe what I am telling you, but what I want you to do is make an observation for yourself, try to see if any of these things relate to you, and if they do, you can then decide whether or not to change your own beliefs and try new ones.

So, here are the following myths.

Myth #1. I Will Be Happy When I Become Successful.

This belief is at the top of the list because it is the most wildly spread belief that has a ripple in our societies

People are not happy because they think they have to acquire something or be something before they can be happy.

Nonsense.

“waiting to be happy may keep you waiting for ever. Happiness is a self-made decision. If you want to be happy, then decide to be happy and you will find happiness flowing from you not to you.”

—Alex.

In Neale Donalds Walshe awesome teaching, he explains how human beings are not put here to simply grow and evolve and become more than we already are but to give all that we are.

Happiness is just a brand of energy, if it doesn’t flow from you, it won’t flow to you. So, in other words, if you don’t create it, you don’t find it.

Science over the decades have begun to uncover some marvelous brain features, and one of the most dominant of all is the issue of happiness as it is a major sought out experience by most humans.

And what they found is only beginning to gain recognition in our modern world: happy thoughts create happy experiences.

So, happiness while happiness is not only self-generated without thoughts, you can see that there is obviously no attachment to how happy you feel and what is actually going on around you.

This is the misleading belief most of us are having: that we have to be something or have something before we ever become happy.

There are limitless reasons for us to be happy every day, whether it is doing something we love to do, or being with people and creating happy experiences together, or even just being with nature.

All of these depends not on anything outside of us like material possessions. They are entirely things within our ability to control.

Once again, hoping in the future when there is some sort of break to be happy will only make you keep hoping. Happiness does not happen in the future, you find a reason to be happy now.

I was taking a brisk walk down my area some years ago, and I heard of a group of persons laughing out loud, like really loud.

You know that kind of laugh you laugh when you are really happy, I mean the kind that leaves your stomach hurting? Good.

I turned around and found about 8 to 10 little kids all sitting in wheelchairs all having real happy looks on their face. None of them had a look of a physically disabled person on the face.

And it left me thinking: “People with complete hands and legs find a hard time conjuring up such happy experiences, but here were kids without legs who don’t feel they have no legs, laughing as though nothing is happening.”

From that moment, I just thought that perhaps life doesn’t have to be perfect for us to be happy. We can choose to be happy whenever we want to.

I believe there are countless reasons in your life that you can be happy and grateful for, you perhaps haven’t searched for one.

It could be as simple as having a tongue to taste good food. (LoL)

the only way we can experience true happiness is when it comes from us not outside of us, like expecting the conditions of life to be perfect before we can be happy. Happiness doesn't happen when life is perfect, it happens when we create it now.

 

Myth #2. The Best Years Of My Life Are Over.

Another dangerous belief that most us have is that the best part of our lives are over. Maybe in the past, we had some really exciting experiences, we tend to think that those happy days are gone and will never return.

But here is the good news, and you either choose to believe it or not but it still doesn’t matter. You haven’t even seen what life has to offer you.

Did you know you can make it a quest to live happily every day of your life? It’s just a simple decision you have to make.

No matter how challenging your present moment may be, your happy days are yet to come. The ones you’ve in the past is just a tip of the iceberg.

God’s plan for you is to live every day in happiness and enjoyment. And not until you begin to be truly grateful for the little things you have in your life, forgetting about the things that may not be working well for you now, you cannot find a good reason to be happy.

Science has uncovered that a mind of gratitude tends to attract more things to be grateful for.

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness because it shows me the stars.

—Og Mandino.

In reality, the major reason that keeps most of us from being happy is the fact that we cannot handle the challenges in our lives. When we struggle with our challenges, it leaves us feeling exhausted, having less energy to experience the reality of the eternal NOW.

We should understand that we are not the ones in control here. That there is a BIGGER force at work in us, and that life can play out the way we least expect sometimes, but that is what makes it life.

Whether or not life is perfect, we can still choose to be happy, regardless. It only depends on our decision to not allow the happenings of life rob us of our happiness.

As you may have guessed, happiness is independent of the past, present or future. Happiness is a choice we can make now, and we can literally create on demand.

Choose to be happy every day regardless of the condition of life. Learn how to put out positive energy into the universe because it is what you put out you get back.

Thinking your happy days are over is like playing the Russian roulette. It’s preparing you for a life of boredom, misery, anger, envy, hate, and ultimately death.

You can always find reasons in your life to be happy for. The gift of life is perhaps the most important reason you could ever have because hey, you could be gone the next minute.

So, BE HAPPY NOW.

Be happy, don't try to fight with reality. Absorb and let life live itself.

Myth #3. I Will Be Happy When I Meet The Right Person.

To be honest, I used to think like this.

The problem with this belief is that it does something very dangerous to you.

It puts you on the “seeker plane” of life. Rather than making depend on you for their happiness, it makes you depend on someone for your own happiness.  As Neale Donald Walsche described in an interview, when you wait for someone else to bring you the things you want, you might wait forever for that and you might even die waiting.

“Never wait for the right one. Become the right one.”

—John Alex.

Personally, I used to depend on people to make me feel happy, especially when I’m in a relationship. I mistakenly thought that when you are in a relationship with someone, it is their role to make you happy.

Well, I later found that I was actually reversing the process. You don’t wait for another person to be happy, you make others wait for you to be happy. It’s called being “the source.”

So, if you are expecting to find the right person before you experience happiness in your life, then you need to start changing that program and start thinking of ways to make others feel happy being with you.

There is a psychological truth that when you make people always feel happy by being around you, they tend to associate you with feeling happy. It increases their attraction for you since their brains will always seek things or people that make them happy.

So, keep that in mind the next time you try to win or influence someone. Give them what their brains want, and they will become addicted to you.

 

Myth #4. A Bigger Paycheck Will Increase Happy.

“wealth is not of the purse, it’s of the heart.”

—Og Mandio

It’s a very common thing for us to think that we will be truly happy when we have acquired all the money we want.

We know that money is like oxygen, it’s something you can’t live without it. But there is no amount of money you have in the bank that will buy you a cup of happiness cake.

So, satisfying both your material life and your inner life is quite different. Money will provide you the things necessary for daily life, but it cannot give you true happiness.

Studies show that some billionaires suffer more depression and heart attacks due to compound stress.

It requires more than money to be truly happy. It requires our own understanding of our outer and inner life. Learn to identify the wall between these two.

Most of us judge our inward life with what goes on in their outward life, so it is very difficult for someone who does not understand his mind to be happy inwardly when, in fact, he is going through a lot of physical and emotional challenges coming from his outward experience.

If we can appreciate life, give thanks even for the challenges of our life whether or not they are good, if we can do that, then it happens that we do not require the external world to be perfect before we feel true happiness.

Like I always say, true happiness for me happens when I take pleasure in the simple things that matter in life, like taking a ten-minutes walk or even having a meaningful conversation with a friend.

Quit waiting for a raise or steady finance in order to feel happy, you can be happy and grateful for the simplest things in your life.

Keep in mind that the happier you feel now, the more happy experiences you will draw into your life.

 

Chose to be happy and you will have the money to live happy.

Myth #5. You Are Less Happy At Old Age.

However truthful this may sound, it’s not so.

No matter how old you are, happiness is a continuous choice.

Have you ever felt scared of growing older?

I have. At one time in my life, I actually thought you less enjoy life when you are old. Like all the enjoyments happen when we are still in our youth.

But as studies have shown that most people actually grow happy and stronger as they grow older due to their individual energy and vibration.

So, if you are still worried about growing old and not enjoying life the way you want to, quit worrying because there is even more stored up for you as you age. I will suggest you begin to prepare your mind for happy years to come.

It goes without saying that the reason people get scared of growing old is the fear of poverty and lack and sickness and death.

If you already know your life’s purpose, then you need not focus your energy on these negative feelings. However, if you don’t know your purpose yet, then it’s easy to feel insecure about the future.

Napoleon Hills said: “The most common cause of fear of old age is associated with the possibility of poverty”

There is a post here that teaches you how to find your purpose and live every day with excitement, feel free to check it out.

We sometimes feel this fear at some point in our lives, but as we grow up, we must begin to unlearn these negative mindsets that we have learned to think over time and instead begin to plant in more prosperity ideas in our minds. 

The truth is this; you feel more confident about your future if you are preparing for it now, however, you feel insecure about it when you have no plans for it to be better.

In Conclusion.

As human beings, our happiness in life is threatened and denied by many factors, but, if we decide to ignore these factors and move through the process, we can decide to make our own happiness more of a choice.

Would you rather worry about something you have no control over? Or be happy with the simple things in life.

Sometimes, when I am going through a challenge, I do not like to let it bother me, so what I do instead, is either take a ten-minutes walk, or just sit somewhere quiet and just listen and appreciate the sounds of the birds, and other forms of life.

This activity alone has the potential to make you forget about any challenge you may be going through and just notice the happiness and freedom happening all around you.

You may not be able to always control the experiences in your life, but you can decide on how they make you feel

I hope this post was able to inspire you? If you have any suggestions on why people don’t feel true happiness on demand, please share with us, we would love to hear from you.

If you found this post valuable, kindly do me a favor. Share it with other of your friends or family who might also find it useful, and let the ripple spread forth.

I appreciate you for taking the time to check this article. Until next time.

Bye!

 

 

Overcome poverty, eliminate negative money blueprint and enjoy long term financial freedom.

How I Overcame Poverty, Changed A Negative Money Blueprint And Became Free.

How to eliminate negative money blueprint and be free financially.

Hey there! Nice to have you read this article.

Having a negative money blueprint can be really frustrating to deal with when you are trying to manifest more riches in your life. In fact, it is the major source of poverty in people life. There is not a single person who wouldn’t want to have more money. It is true that the more you have, the more you can afford.

However, the good life is often not available to people because of the negative beliefs and blueprint they have established over time. If you think you are tired with your money situations: not being able to provide for the people you love and care about, not being able to take care of yourself the way you would like etc.

You have to first understand that (A) You can become free from money problems, and (B) It takes courage to be able to test and implement new ideas.

These are all natural desires we all have. Being able to live life in our own way, and the more financial freedom you have, the more things you are able to control.

However, at the end of the day, despite our righteous and sincere heart desires, only a few get to make it to the land of freedom.

In this article, you are going to learn:

  • What a negative blueprint is. How it is established in us, and how you can begin to change it.

  • How your thoughts are creating the experiences you are having, and how you can begin to change your life experiences by simply paying more attention to your thoughts and changing negative thought patterns from dominating your mind.

  • Why it is important you are sure of what you truly desire most in life.

  • How to change your negative money blueprint by planting new empowering beliefs and mindset.

  • The mistake that people make with giving, and how “giving” can actually change your life when you do it correctly.

  • Why it is important to take action on your dream.

So, what is the line that separates the rich from the poor?

Well, sit back and relax because, in this post, we are going to be looking at the main cause of most people’s financial struggles. And guess what, because they are all deep subconscious causes, they are almost never figured out.

Figuring this out for yourself can change your life, although I am not trying to make any claims here whatsoever. However, these principles are well grounded in science and new discovery about the human potential. So, take this message for what it’s worth to you.

Before we begin, lets take a look at the key term here.

What Is A Negative Money Blueprint?

Having a negative money blueprint will always leave you broke and looking for help.

Before we even try to understand why we struggle financially or why there is not always enough money left for us before the end of the month, it is important that we understand what our Money Blueprint is.

The term “Money Blueprint” was coined by the writer T Harv Eker in his book Secrets Of The Millionaire Mind” which I strongly suggest you grab and digest. Simply put, the term describes a man’s ability or inability to make money in life.

While many of us are not aware of the programs our brain receives, most of us are not even aware that these programs are negative in regards to money.

So, to make this clear, let me attempt to explain it in the simplest way possible. Our so-called “money blueprint” begins to develop alongside our self-concept as we grow up. So, for example, when a child is born, there is no conscious mind present yet in the child, which is why kids are completely clueless of what a hot stove is because they lack the ability to think.

However, every word that comes to the ear, images that pass the eyes, smells that come to the senses is accepted and recorded by the subconscious mind. As the child begins to grow, he begins to form his self-concept due to the data that has been already been recorded in his subconscious mind.

Now it depends on the things stored in the subconscious mind that’s going to determine what the child’s self-concept will be. For example, if the child is born and grew up in an environment where the parent always quarreled and complained about money. Perhaps every time he gets bombarded with the words; “Son, we can’t afford this or that” or the mother complaining “All these bills coming in, how are they gonna get paid” or the dad saying “Do you think we pluck money from the tree?”

You get the idea? If these are the types of words the kid is exposed to, then, automatically and subconsciously, he is being conditioned with that belief, that reality that there is not always enough money, and that money is hard to make, and that money does not come by easily. As a result, he unconsciously begins to develop his own money blueprint which in this case is negative, due to the information recorded by his subconscious.

Our blueprint is very important to us because it is what determines how much we are able to control in life, how much we can create and how we generally respond and react in regards to money. While some person’s blueprint may be at $40,000 a year income, for example, someone else’s might be at $1,400,000 a year income. At the same time, someone else’s blueprint might be hundreds of million dollar income per year.

The main point I’m driving is that our blueprint goes a long way in affecting the things we are able to afford in our lives: the house we live in, the cars we drive, the overall standard of our lives, the people we are friends with etc.

So before you ask yourself the MAIN question: What is my money blueprint?

Let us take a look at some ways we can change our money blueprint.

Step 1. Accept The Truth.

Unleashing the powers of your mind will enable you to break negative money blueprint and help you live life in freedom

The truth they say can be ugly but TRUTH will always remain TRUTH. Henry Ford who said, “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you are absolutely right” meant that for a reason. 

Did you know your mind has the powers to create whatever it can conceive? Did you know the human mind is so POWERFUL that it produces in our lives whatever is planted in it, whether or not we are conscious of it?

Changing our lives begins with accepting the truth. Each and every moment, our minds are conditioned, whether by our own thoughts of what is happening around us or by others thought expressed in words. These words may be positive or negative, the mind is simply indifferent and will accept anything planted in it.

You can go here if you would like to learn about the powers of your mind.

The way we go about changing our own money blueprint is unlearning an old blueprint which is the “money is hard to earn” blueprint, and change it to “I make money easily” blueprint. The truth of this matter is that, for change to take place in our outward lives, that idea of change—in this case, our money blueprint— has to be cemented firmly in our minds. So, when we believe at a deeper level of heart and mind that we indeed find it easy to make money, then we can say we have a new money blueprint.

There are other kinds of money blueprint that people can have, but we are only focusing on how to change a negative financial blueprint in this article. No matter what your blueprint is, it is what you are going to manifest in your life. So for example, if you believe that money doesn’t last for long in your hand, then you are programming a kind of blueprint that will work hard in ensuring that money doesn’t stay with you. No matter how much money you make, you will always find yourself sliding down to the point where you have nothing, or you simply lose everything you had. This explains why most people who win the lottery always end up broke.

                      Action Exercise

  • The only thing you have to do in this step is accept the fact and the truth that, every thought you think in regards to money, every word you speak, every action you take in regards to money is conditioning your mind, and once conditioned, your mind will work similarly to express those programs in your outward experience. This is why there are so many innocent poor people in the world. People who have not been schooled about the inner workings of the human mind.

Another way to go about this is to begin to watch the things you think about at all times. Become a watchman to your mind and your thought. See how your thoughts are generated including negative thought patterns. The mind plays a trick on us the same way a cat likes to play with the rat. Every time your mind tells you something is not possible, or that something will not work out fine, or that you don’t always have money for yourself, or that you are broke—even though in reality this is practically true— change it immediately. Never accept a negative idea from your mind, even though in practical experience it seems to be true. That is the trick.

Everything you are experiencing now is what you have allowed and accepted to sink into your higher mind, so if you want to change the experiences in the future, begin to do so by now allowing and accepting negative ideas every time they come up. Again, even though you are practically experiencing it.

 

Step 2. Be Sure Of What You Want Out Of Life.

what do you want in life

Although this article is not designed in a systematical order for you to follow, you can choose to learn and adopt any step you chose according to what is congruent with you, however, this seems like the stage two of the process.

You have to know what you truly want in life. Naturally, we all have desires, things we would like to be, do or have. But every time they come up, our own idea of reality tends to block us from it making us believe that it is simply impossible to achieve our goals and live our dreams.

In that case, so many people tend to believe in the tiny little voice in their head. Gradually, we stop thinking about how we can achieve our goals and instead start think of why we cannot achieve our goals, listening to what our minds are telling us about our reality.

Here’s the truth, it is possible that you can achieve your goals, live your dream, become more fulfilled than you’ve ever been, regardless of where you are in life right now. In fact, the powers of the mind don’t care what reality is, it can do anything you conceive and believe in. Napoleon Hill made this clear when he said that “What the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”

The reason people don’t get to enjoy life as they would want is that they have chosen that the things they once yearned for are impossible to achieve. They simply give up on their dreams and in the face of shame and lack of control in their lives, they tend to give countless excuses for their quitting.

Be sure of what you want in life! Life is short. Don’t think because you weren’t born rich—as a matter of fact, we are born with rich potentials— that you don’t deserve to live rich. There is nothing wrong with being rich. We are created to live that way. However, our own limiting beliefs put a wall between us and the life we are destined to live.

To begin with, make a firm decision. Although nobody makes a conscious decision to live poor, the vast majority of people who are actually poor become so unconsciously. By not being aware of what is really going on in their minds.

What kind of life do you want to live? Rich, Average, middle class or even poor? It is sad to think that some persons actually have the beliefs that they are meant to live poor and they it is their FATE to be poor.

Note this: You are never meant to live poor! None of Gods creatures were created with lack and scarcity in MIND! Everything including you was created to live in overabundance, just as there is an overabundance for the birds of the sky, the fishes of the sea, the animals on land.

The only thing that is required to change for us to reap the good fruit is our own belief of what is possible for us. If we think we can live our dreams then we make it actually possible for us to live our dreams. But if we think it is impossible for us to live our dreams, then we make it impossible for us. I strongly urge you to believe you can live the life you desire. Tell it to yourself 50 to 100 times a day, “I CAN LIVE THE LIFE OF MY DREAMS.” 

If the thought comes that it’s impossible for you to achieve your goal, do not accept it as true, instead, remind your mind of what YOU chose to believe in, and that is, you can live your dream.

                  Action Exercise

  • Believe it is possible to live the life you desire because it actually is. Millions of people around the world are testifying daily to the wonder-working powers of their mind. Sick patients are reported mysteriously cured of different sort of ailments simply by believing they can be healed.

If you want to enjoy your life while there is still time left for you, begin by developing the belief that you can have anything you want, do anything you want, and be whoever you want here on this planet. Re-create yourself. Keep in mind that believing takes time to develop, so don’t worry when you tell yourself you believe in something and your mind says “No you don’t!” However, by constant repetition and reminding your mind of your new beliefs and programming(that anything is possible,) it begins to learn and adopt it as your new way of thinking. The preceding statement is backed by new research in neuroscience which I will recommend you check out.

 

Step 3. Plant A Prosperity Consciousness And Constantly Nurture It.

to eliminate an old money blueprint, you need to program a new prosperity consciousness
Imagine prosperity for yourself and your family.

Another important and critical step in restoring a new money blueprint, one that permits money to constantly flow to you easily is installing a new money consciousness. Before we delve into this technique, there is something you need to be aware of. So many people do not understand that money is simply a form of energy. And it flows!

Because so many people are not conscious of this fact, their energies and the natural universal energy that ultimately produces riches is not aligned. And when your energies are not aligned with the universal energy of wealth creation, there is no amount of labor you do, money will not flow to you.

An example of someone who is not attuned to the energy of creating riches may think that “money is the root of evil” or “more money brings more problem” etc.

I am sure you have heard one of these statements from someone you know.

Beliefs are the key that opens the “money tap” if you will, and allow money flow to you. Keep in mind that beliefs can also shut the tap from flowing, and instead allow money flow in tiny drops. But once your beliefs are set right, then it acts like an opener and brings down the barrier to the flow of money in your life.

But how do we set the belief right? How do we make our minds attract money to us?

These are the two questions I often hear a lot. One thing you should understand is that before money begins to appear in your bank account, you have to have it first in your “mind account.”

That is, you have to see yourself first in your mind’s eyes already in possession of the specific money you desire.

It is the feeling you get by merely thinking about it that sets the creative forces into motion and bring you the opportunities that will ultimately make your mind acquisitions come to life.

When I talk to people and ask, how much would you like to have? 

Most persons will answer by saying they need more money than they can have.

This simply means you don’t know what exactly what you want, and when you don’t know what you want, you don’t get sh*t!

See yourself in possession of the exact amount you want in mind, living and doing the things you would do if you had the money right now.

For example, if you want to take trips, live in beautiful apartments, and drive fancy cars, you first need to imagine yourself doing these things in your mind.

                       Action Exercise

  • The SIMPLEST way I can suggest to develop a prosperity belief/consciousness is to repeatedly plant the idea in your mind.

Form a group of words regarding financial abundance and constantly repeat it in your mind over and over again until it becomes a belief.

The words you form might be “I am always surrounded by money,” or I have the ability to create a large amount of money.” 

Whatever your words are, once formed, make a ritual to think them always. Say them out loud to yourself. Repeat it at every chance you get hundreds of times daily and even then, don’t stop.

Here’s the catch, the more you repeat these words, the more your subconscious mind or your higher mind accepts them as TRUE.

This is how our beliefs are formed. Through constant repetition of certain words and thoughts, we find ourselves always saying them because they have formed part of our beliefs.

Keep in mind that the subconscious mind cannot distinguish between $5 and $5,000,000. So it is wise for you to program It with an abundance consciousness.

The steps to programming your mind to attract BIG money is actually easy, however, the not-so-easy part is that once you begin to think certain thoughts, you are not allowed to think otherwise or even entertain your old thoughts of lack and scarcity.

The moment you allow an old thought enter into your consciousness, it has the potential to check all your new programming, hence, the reason thinking has become the most difficult task in all of human history.

It is very easy for an average man to form new thoughts, but it is also very difficult for him to stay true to his new thoughts. He is constantly swayed by random events and circumstances happening all around him, therefore, he has no control to actually focus his mind on only the things he wants.

The only job you have if you want to change your money blueprint is to think prosperity thoughts at all time, ignore thoughts of lack and scarcity even though you may be practically experiencing scarcity.

It is the images you have in mind in regards to money that will influence and affect the flow of money to you. If for example, you have images of lack and scarcity, then you can be sure that this is the reality your mind is going to produce.

Keep in mind that: the mind thinks and the body experiences.

Have you ever wondered why you want to buy something, but you tend to go for a cheaper quality instead of a really high-quality one?

When it comes to money, how you think and feel about it affects your behaviors around it.

So the bottom line here is this: after you have formed your new thoughts and ideas of prosperity, then you must make it a ritual and really impress these ideas deeply into your being until it becomes a solid part of your behavior.

Repeat these thoughts hundreds of time each day every day. What you are really after is the belief that you are in fact rich and prosperous, and that you have the ability to make any amount of money you want. Once you have that belief deeply rooted, you will never have to doubt yourself.

Much like you don’t doubt 2 * 2 = 4

This is the reason for so many people’s case, they simply don’t believe they CAN.

It is your belief that makes the magic happen.

Step 4. Allow Money Flow From You To Others Freely.

To break negative money blueprint, you must become a giver.
Be a giver

To really begin to cement your new idea that money comes to you easily and that you are prosperous, there are some things or sacrifice that you must make and form as part of your lifestyle.

A moment ago, we explained that money is only an energy that flows right?

Now the question is this, will you receive it if it had not flown to you? No!

Do not be deceived that you have to work for money in order to make money.

Putting in the work is important(as we will discuss in the next step) but it is your actions, words, thoughts about money that determines everything.

Have you ever heard the old saying “GIVERS NEVER LACK”?

This can only be the truth since the universe recognizes someone that lives as a source to others.

If you have ever given from your pocket to someone down the street who didn’t have anything to eat and he actually got food to eat because of you, you have acted as a source of blessing in the life of that person, (the receiver) these things will come back to you multiplied. This is not philosophy, this is physics”

The most important—and yet most overlooked— thing you can ever learn is the GOLDEN RULE: “DO TO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE IT DONE TO YOU.”

There is a reason Jesus in the scripture as was teaching the GOLDEN RULE said: for this is the essence of the all teachings and all the prophets.” “do to others as you would have it done to you.”

This rule explains the basic functioning mechanism of how the universe actually works. That if you want to have something maybe like an experience or something material, then you must cause another person to experience that same thing that you wish you have.

And as you cause someone else to experience it, in other words, as you allow that energy to flow through you to someone else, it sticks to you, causes the energy in you to expand as it makes certain that there is enough to flow through.

The expansion of that energy causes you to experience a feeling of “havingness:” That which I give I already have or I couldn’t be giving it.

Most people who have no understanding how this law works, think they will start giving out to others the moment they have enough. Wrong!

If you think like that, then I will advise you change your way of thinking. You don’t begin to give when you have enough, you begin to give when you are in lack.’

It is that pain of giving from your lack that makes it sacrificial. You don’t really feel a big deal when you give from abundance because you could care less. However, it is when what you have left means so much to you that it actually counts. For example, sharing your last $100 dollar bill with a beggar and maybe giving him $20.

Take a close look at people who are true givers and you will find that the universe supplies all they need for life in abundance.

However, while giving is an activity that is a blessing to the giver all on its own, there are ways to give correctly.

How To Make Your Giving Effective

There is a science to give.

Sometimes you hear people say “But I am a giver in my church, I do this and I do that” and yet nothing is happening in my life.”

The reason nothing is happening is that they have not learned the correct way to give.

Here’s the truth: Most people give in order to gain social validation. They like to make others feel they are nice and caring.

They are not really giving to help a soul, they are only giving because they want to be recognized as givers.

It’s good to let others know you are showing a good example, it’s good to let people see you as givers but you only do that at your own expense.

Some givers get their rewards(instant gratification) the moment they share their giving experience with someone else, regardless of who they are, whether it is your spouse or anybody.

They don’t really enjoy the spiritual rewards that come from giving with a real and genuine intention.

If you want to enjoy the spiritual benefits that come with truly giving, there is only one thing you can do: Make all your act of giving as secret as possible.

Allow no one else to know what you do to help others although sometimes you may be unable to control this. However, in that case, how you respond will make the difference. Do not make your act of giving seem like a big deal, like its nothing.

Be a secret hero as they say.

By giving without an intention to gain attention, the universe interprets it as a true giving. You are not giving because you want to be noticed, you are only giving because you saw someone else in need and you felt it is right and within your powers to offer help.

This shows that your intentions are TRUE, and when you do help another soul, help comes back to you multiplied.

                     Action Exercise.

  • Begin by sharing whatever you have with others who seems they do not have enough. Don’t think you don’t have enough because you actually do.

The wisest thing you can do for yourself once after you begin to plant the idea of prosperity into your consciousness is to begin to align your actions with your thought.

So, if you were really living in prosperity, supposing your dreams have come true, and you’ve had all you once desired, what would you be doing for the less hopeful people?

Whatever you come up with, that is what you must begin to practice. So, by giving and sharing freely with others, you are acting like the person you want to be, in a way that shows prosperity and abundance.

As Budha once said, Wealth is not of the purse but of the heart.”

  • Always make your acts of giving a secret. If it is possible, keep your helpful acts to yourself. Avoid the temptation of sharing your stories of helping someone with any other person.

 

Step 5. Action Closes The Gap.

Action is a critical step of changing your life and breaking negative money blueprint

Have you ever heard of the good old saying “Act like the person you want to be“? Well, I just said it a few moments ago.

Here is the reality of it, people grow up and become poor simply because they do learn to act like the person they wish to be.

It’s a very simple process: What do you want in life, re-form your thoughts to align with your new vision, and begin to act in ways consistent with your thoughts and vision.

So for example, if you want to do something really spectacular perhaps change your family for the better, well, you already know what you want but how are you going to accomplish that?

Figuring out how you are going to accomplish this will set your creative imagination processes into action. Whatever you figure out that you can do that will enable you to make a change, move immediately and begin to do something about it, at least one thing each day.

Here’s the thing. Most people will say, “but I don’t know how to do this” or “but I don’t have the skills.” And the answer is this, you don’t need to know how, or even possess the skills initially, just act!

As proven by science and I highly believe in it, any and everything is learnable! There is not a single man on the planet who is born with a specific set of talents and skills. Every talent and skill is learned and mastered over time.

With daily practice, you immerse yourself in that thing that you are trying to be or do.

Here’s another reason most people are poor. People think and say they do not have enough time to devote to learn something new.

Now, let say you start working by 9am, end by 5pm and maybe get home by 7pm. However, from 8pm to 2am is plenty of time for you to learn anything.

The good thing is you don’t even need to spend countless hours daily learning something new. In my own opinion, at least 2 hours a day will be more than enough for you to immerse yourself in a new skill.

Two hours each day in a year will be 730 hours of study. Do you think that will help you learn any skill you want?

Laziness is that the heart of poverty, and that is why many people go through life poor. Negative money blueprint, lack of decision and laziness is the formula for poverty. And anyone is welcome to try these habits.

However, if you wish to stay away from a life of scarcity and lack, then you must be willing and able to address these factors.

                    Action Exercise.

  • You have to act on whatever plan you have that will move you closer to the good life you want. If you have a goal of something you would like to achieve, and you have a plan that you know CAN bring this goal to life, begin at once to act. Besides your plans do not need to be excellent and you certainly don’t need to possess all the skills required before you act. Do what you can do each day.

It may be learning something written by someone else, it can even be following someone who has done what you are trying to do, it might be creating something. Whatever you have to do, do it.

 

Final Thought.

We all have the power and ability to change the quality of our life if we think we are not satisfied with the way we are living.

Life is short and has to be enjoyed by you. Although most people come into this world and inherit a set of laid down beliefs transferred to them from virtually everyone they know as young infants.

However unfortunate, these people never summon the courage to challenge their beliefs and so it stands as a barrier to the good life that we all wish for and deserve.

If you want to change the quality of your life and create more stability in your life especially when it comes to making money to look after yourself and those you care about, you need to begin by looking at your beliefs about money and spotting negative beliefs that can set you back.

Once you identify these beliefs that often comes in form of a thought, you can, therefore, begin to change them and start replacing them with more positive thoughts.

Over time, once your positive thoughts have been accepted, it becomes your new beliefs and therefore begins to attract all the things necessary to achieve your set goals.

Just the same way a negative belief can work its magic to keep you in lack and scarcity without you even knowing, same way will a positive belief work mysteriously to get you what you require for life.

There is magic in believing. What you need to do is have the right kinds of empowering beliefs.

The above steps will establish a new financial blueprint for you if you chose to follow and apply them of course.

Pick any one of them that seems applicable to you, make a plan to act on it, and begin to act on it. Remember, action closes the gap between you and the person you want to be.

Keep in mind that you are created rich, but to live rich, you must decide that.

Now, its time to ask you that BIG question! What is your money blueprint?

I hope this article inspired you. Although I didn’t intend to keep it this long, I hope I didn’t take too much of your time.

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